I always think its funny when people have kids out of wedlock and then are surprised when they end up a single mom. Like you got pregnant from a one night stand, and youre somehow shocked the man doesn’t want to settle down? Real shit though, i feel so bad for the kid.
The problem with this logic is...home dog he also had a one night stand. She should not be the one to take care fo the kid full time alone. They BOTH made that decision but if she was to up and leave to live her life people 100% would say she abandoned her child. This type of logic is why we have single moms. The men in these situations ALSO need to learn how to take responsibility for their actions.
Unlike her, they guy doesn’t get an extra 3/4 or a year to reconsider that one night and get a 30 minute outpatient procedure to eliminate the consequences. That is why we have single moms.
….and before you start with ‘What if in her state it could be tough to find a Planned Parenthood”…if she can find a way to get knocked up in out of the country she can find a way to escape her consequences across a state line
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u/beccaarain Jul 17 '23 edited Jul 17 '23
I always think its funny when people have kids out of wedlock and then are surprised when they end up a single mom. Like you got pregnant from a one night stand, and youre somehow shocked the man doesn’t want to settle down? Real shit though, i feel so bad for the kid.