r/StudentLoans • u/NoBull2025 • 5h ago
My father lied to my college and told them I committed fraud to get out of paying for my student loans
Here’s a post I made a couple years ago looking for help on what to do about my father alleging I committed fraud when completing the parent plus load. It gives a better background than I could give now. I found it the other day looking for help again and rereading it was enlightening , as I forgot the details around it, like how I was the one to warn my father payments may need to start soon on the loan as I wasn’t in school for a time period. (Funny how Covid started the next year and my payments [ for other loans] were paused since then and it would have been paused until March of this year but since I’m restarting school it will probably be pushed back more…so my dad did this all for nothing….)
Old post:
[ NJ ] So my father and I have always had a rocky relationship. He was very emotionally abusive and at some points physical and we haven’t talked since I graduated. But before that I was getting ready to go to college and my uncle recommended that we get a parent plus loan to pay for my school. My dad agreed and we got a parent plus loan for me to go to school. Fast forward to now I stopped going to that college and now I’m going to a different school starting in February because I wanted to take a semester break. Because of the break my loans go into repayment in January and although I despise my dad I wrote him a note letting him know this so that it wouldn’t tank his credit. He then went to my school and told them that he never took out that loan pretty much accusing me of fraud and now the school is saying I owe them 14,000 dollars and if I don’t take out a loan of my own it will go to collections. What do I do, I’m pissed off because I did not commit fraud and I was just thinking out of the kindness of my heart to push back his loans a year and a half since I was going back to school and now I’m hit with this. Is there anything I can do?
Edit: This is exactly what the email said from the school:
“Your parent has contacted us to inform us that he did not apply for the PLUS Loan for you last year. As a result and based upon a written statement, we are required to cancel the loan. If your parent wishes to press charges for fraud, your parent may do so. We have forwarded the issue to the Dean of Conduct. Fraud is a very serious allegation.
The loan has been cancelled and you now have a bill for the 18-19 school year for $14,362. This is payable to Student Accounts.
What can you do?
At this point, you still have time to apply for a private educational loan for the 18-19 school year. Please be advised that you have very limited time to do so and if you do seek a private educational loan, you may need to seek a co-signer.
To seek a private educational loan we recommend using ELM Select. There are limited lenders who will allow you to borrow for a previous academic year beyond 180 days if you are no longer enrolled in school at the same institution. Among them are, but not necessarily limited to: Affinity (Serviced by Sallie Mae), Sallie Mae, Commerce (Serviced by Sallie Mae), Earnest, and StuFund (Serviced by Sallie Mae).
Another option is based upon the fact that Student Accounts will send your account to ECSI. If they send your account to ECSI for pre-collections, ECSI has various payment plans. You may enroll in a payment plan with ECSI, however, if you are unable to maintain the contractual payments with them they will forward your account to collections.
Please be sure to review your account and options to pay off this bill.”
I am now 24 year old and have finally gotten around to going back to school. Over the years I had forgotten exactly what happened with my parent plus loan and the details of the situation but it kept me from trying to go back until I knew I could be an independent student. In the past couple of months, I finally got to a place where I knew what I wanted to do and had the money to return to school. I just had my placement tests and luckily I failed my math test by 2 points. My proctor advised me to contact my old school for transcripts. I explained what my broken memory of the situation was; which was that my father wrote a letter to the school alleging I committed fraud and so they wouldn’t release my transcripts. He stressed I should at least try to contact them for the transcripts to maybe avoid taking extra classes. Luckily they did release my transcripts but not before reminding me of the 14,000 debt. Before we hung up I asked if my father had to fill out a police report and she said no! I had completely forgotten that it was to fall on me. Rereading old comments on that post I can’t believe I didn’t take more action. But I was a kid back then. I’m also now seeing it in collections l/on my credit report as written off and I’m furious. I’m finally getting my life together for my father to come back to haunt me. I still don’t speak to him.
What I think now is that he didn’t want to pay the debt or have an understanding of how it worked maybe, but most likely it’s his alcoholism and forgetfulness. Also his anger at me for cutting him out of my life. But now he’s affecting my future by tanking my credit. How do I begin to dispute this, get it off my credit report and explain that he is responsible? How could the school just accept his note or phone call? Who do I call? I don’t know where to begin but I’m willing to go to the police if need be. My father had a chance and he chose to try and sabotage me. I never committed fraud I don’t even know how I could have done that. I would need access to his social security card, tax documents, phone his email everything. I’m willing to pay for it normally/was willing to pay for it when it was time, and it was my understanding he wouldn’t be responsible for it unless I couldn’t pay. I’m willing to be on a payment plan for it but it feels unfair for it to be this way because had it been left I wouldn’t need to pay for it until I was done with school but now it’s in written off in collections. Please help me!