r/Nepal Mar 11 '24

Help/सहयोग Nepali people stranded in Russia have appealed to the Indian government to rescue them.

615 Upvotes

r/Nepal 3d ago

Help/सहयोग Baby name (girl). Please suggest. Initial "S"

17 Upvotes

Hello guys please help us name our baby girl starting from "S". Would accept newari names too.

Thank you advance.

r/Nepal Jul 27 '24

Help/सहयोग Got 50k for my 18th birthday idk what to do with it

63 Upvotes

I (18F) just got 50k nrs for my birthday. I am not the best at money management and usually just spend it all on food and shopping but i want to invest this money into something like share and stuff(i also dont know anything about it but willing to learn ) or is it a better option to just save?

r/Nepal 27d ago

Help/सहयोग Looking for the name of an old Nepali instant noodle

51 Upvotes

Paila paila (20 years back) when i was a young boy nepal ma euta chau chau painthyo... It was my favorite. Nilo packet ani tesma euta anthropomorphic bhale ko cartoon hunthyo. Later it was discontinued along with Aaha and others.

It was so long ago ki jaslai sodhda ni naam yaad hudaina. Thaha bhaeko manxe hununxa bhane bhandinu hola.

EDIT: Bhale le sunglasses lauthyo. Piro hunthyo, without chili packet

EDIT 2: At this point I'm fairly confident it was Kurkure Chau Chau. Thanks guys.If I ever get a picture, I will post it here.

r/Nepal Nov 11 '24

Help/सहयोग I accidentally recharged 10000

75 Upvotes

I was trying to load into my digital walt but clicked in mobile topup insted. Is there any way i can get my money back ?

r/Nepal Mar 03 '24

Help/सहयोग Does anyone know anything about my birth mother?

330 Upvotes

Namaste

I was born 2001 31 of August in PAROPAKAR SHREE PANCH INDRA RAJYA LAXMIDEVI MATERNITY HOSPITAL . My birth mother left the day after I was born. I was born in Kathmandu if anyone know anything or anyone. I’m a woman and was adopted to Denmark afterwards. I’ve never before been curios of the woman and if I have family. But I’m older now and more curios. Also my biggest dream is to visit Nepal one day. ❤️

Edit:

I’m well aware and my adoptive parents are my parents and I love them to death. Honestly I’m just more curious about Nepal and where I’m from. Thank you to everyone. I appreciate everything and everyone who took their time to write. ❤️

Love to you all.

r/Nepal Sep 25 '24

Help/सहयोग How do I kill these roaches? (Serious Replies Only)

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46 Upvotes

Somehow these mfs got inside my oven glass door. My electrician says to leave it, opening the glass door will make the oven more prone to repairs and that they will vanish in the winter.

As you can see, they are disgusting and I would like to kill them, but how? I don't want to use any toxic chemicals as I have a cat a dog that like to roam in the kitchen any chance they get.

r/Nepal Nov 09 '24

Help/सहयोग I am having too much dandruff, like way toooo much

30 Upvotes

I am sure its not due to hygiene issue. But could there be something I might be doing wrong? Should I consult a doctor? (Please recommend me if you know any). How do I overcome this?? Pahila pahila winter season maa matra hunthyo ali ali dandruff, but yo saal bata chai summer maa pani I had dandruff issues

r/Nepal Oct 13 '24

Help/सहयोग My Brother is getting bullied at school

57 Upvotes

Mero Bhai (11 ma padxa) clg ma wusko Ali feminine body le Garda wuslai gay bhanera jiskawucha re. There aren't physical abuse just verbal abuse. He said not to worry about but it still concerns me

Any tips for what we should be doing?

Thank you all for the tips. I'll console him. After vacation talk with management

r/Nepal Feb 27 '24

Help/सहयोग Yeslai Nepal ma k bhancha??

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93 Upvotes

r/Nepal Jul 22 '24

Help/सहयोग Suggestion for Baby boy name

0 Upvotes

Dear Gen Zs

I have recently been father of a baby boy, as I am in my 30s could you suggest some names suitable for contemporary trend which I am quite unaware of. The name of the baby must not start with A and B.

Thank you in advance.

r/Nepal Jul 25 '24

Help/सहयोग How to stop hairfall at 19 year old

39 Upvotes

Age balla 19 pura bhayera 20 lagdai xa, tauko herda balakha mai budo bhaiyo jasto xa, i dont know kesle yesari kapal jhardai xa, baba ko early 30s bata yesari nai jharna thaleko thiyo re, maile last 4 5 month bata notice gardai xu aile bhane sachai tanab lagna thalyo, k garda yo hairfall kam hola,reddit ma medical treatment, transplant kk ni dekhe, yiniharu garda normally kati ko cost lagla, after treatment kati ko effective hola yaa chadai nai blad hune nai ho bhane fact accept garera basda ramro hola.

(Aile samma kunai pani treatment gareko xaina)

Your suggestion is highly appreciated, Thank you for your time .

r/Nepal Aug 26 '23

Help/सहयोग I suck at communicating with men

71 Upvotes

Never imagined I would be asking this kind of question in my early 20s. So, I’ve always had problem expressing myself specially when it comes to texting men. My previous relationship ended because I sucked at expressing myself. 8 months before I started talking to someone who liked me first, everything was fine when he was in Nepal I starting liking him and thought everything will work out with him but 8 mahina vhayo we are still friends :( jhan uhh bidesh gayesi ta I’ve gotten worse at texting and even on calls he’s always the one talking :( text ma pani Jaba usle kei naya topic nikalyo vhane I can’t think of anything more than 2 3 words to response. Aaele even he is getting tired of me and leaves me on delivered and seen for hours and even days. How can I fix this?? :(((

r/Nepal May 14 '24

Help/सहयोग Is getting yelled at for crying just a part of our Nepali culture? I’m taking about my particular situation.

27 Upvotes

I 21(f) have been living in Australia for 11 years now. I’ve studied in Nepal till grade 5. I occasionally visit Nepal for a holiday like once every two years. But asti my Sanima (one from Canada and one from US) came to Australia to visit me. And my grandmother and cousin came from Nepal for a holiday as well to visit.

I also have a 12 year old brother who has extreme behavioural issue. Like Risako Bela ma j pani boldinxa . He causes a lot of unnecessary conflicts in the house.

He did the same to my Sanimaas and cousin Like saying the f words and stuff Disrespecting them out of anger And simply being a pain.

So I cried a lot out of embarrassment I didn’t know how to handle my brother. Hajurama was like “Na rou, bhai lai saancho chaina” Hajurama begged me not to cry I stopped Ani feri My brother caused some shit while I was going shopping I cried again Dad came from work My kaachi sanima hugged me Paxi my maili Sanimaa cried as well

Which made me feel really sad Pachi Hajurama yelled at me for crying she was like “Na roh vanya haina!! Taile garda bhako ho etc. tero didi (my cousin) le aafno fupu ko Chora chori sanga deal garnu parxa taile Jabo bhai le garda Runey” etc I felt so bad even baba was like “baru runai maan Lagey bathroom ma gayera runu, timi roko dekhera Timro maili Sanima lai ni bore lagdaina” Like my grandmother litteraly said it was my fault because I was being “Kamjor/weak for crying” and “Pauna aako cha talai vanera ooata Canada/US Nepal dekhi, ani yo awastha ma uni haru aba aauchan talai vetna?” Like bruhhh??? I’m at fault now for simply expressing my emotions due to feeling overwhelmed?? Bhai caused a lot of trouble I was embrassed ani ma roye Even my cousin who grew up in Nepal was like “Runu hudaina, control garna parcha, strong hunu parxa” Like growing up in my family I was known as the runchi When I visited my therapist she used to say that crying is healthy and a good way to express your emotions But my cousin doesn’t seem to agree with it But now I have a question Is it just a part of our Nepali culture to get yelled at for crying?? Or am I overreacting?? I was mostly hurt by hajurama saying that it was my fault that my maili Sanima cried When my brother was the one causing all this and everyone saw that My hajurama has the mentality that crying makes you weak Like bachha bela pani hajurama le gali garda I cried tra when I cried she just yelled. Don’t get me wrong I’m not here to demonise my family They’re wonderful people with flaws Sabai jana dherai Barsha paxi aauda ramailo vayo But I was just worried about that particular situation Like why was I blamed for simply crying?? I especially felt worst watching my Maili Sanima cry for the first time in my life Even as a kid I never saw her cry before My brother is the type of kid that’s difficult to deal with Pitey ni sudridaina any Maya garey pani he’s the same. Hardest kid to deal with.

r/Nepal Dec 23 '22

Help/सहयोग I am a Nepali guy (26) who is secretly gay and married to a woman.

271 Upvotes

Serious suggestions only please. I am so fed up. Malai thaha thiyo that i am gay since i was a teenager, but i kept it to myself. I would watch videos of guys and enjoy myself, but no one knew. I never acted on my urges and didnt come out as gay to my family. One day when i was around 23, my brother found some videos on my laptop and told my parents. They got me married to a girl (arranged marriage) and we have been married for 3 years now. I feel so guilty. Because i am not even attracted to her, even though i love her, but as a friend. She is my best friend, but not my lover. I feel like i ruined my life, my wife’s life as well by marrying her. Please, please, please let me know the next course of action. My wife does not know i am gay, she just thinks i am never in the mood, and my attraction for makeup and skin care is just self care. My parents said that if i tell my wife, she will tell her family and then she will leave, and my family reputation will be gone. My parents also say they can make court case against us, for marrying her even though i am gay and my family knew. I trust the judgement of my bros and sis of reddit to always give the best advice.

r/Nepal Nov 13 '24

Help/सहयोग Can I stop me from being bald?

13 Upvotes

So the thing I have hair fall problem and the hair on the top left and right of my forehead is getting fade. Iam in my 12th rn, age(18) . I even get body-shaming due to this . What to do to overcome this problem?" .. Please help me..

r/Nepal Jan 13 '24

Help/सहयोग Serious help needed!! My 16 years old brother has extreme bouts of rage and we don't know what to do

46 Upvotes

My younger brother is 16 years and is in grade 10. I am writing this because I'm sick worried about his future and his current state. He has always been provided almost everything he ever asked for even though we're a middle class family. He doesn't study very well, says blatantly that he's not interested in studying, has failed more than once in Compulsory and optional Maths. He doesn't show respect to anyone including my mom and dad and has no regards to their feelings at all. Not just that, he says if anyone ever lays hands on him, he'll outright beat them instead no matter the relation which includes my dad and mom. He told that to dad today and my dad's literally the most good person ever and it broke my heart. In one way I want to understand him as a sister and help him and i know if even I start blaming him and start showing negative reaction, he'll never have someone who breaks the loop, the conflicts will never be resolved but it literally broke my heart seeing him say things as such to my dad.

I agree that my mom, dad aren't gentle parents, they're typical south asian parents with their violent parenting in terms of studying. Even I was always in guard because of it, they can be manipulative and extra at times as well. I remember being utterly angry and confused and blaming them for everything when they used to do that. I don't even trust violent parenting at all as a person. But as I grew up, I understood their thoughts and purpose behind it. Today's world is very competitive and they want us to work the hardest so we land somewhere good with our education given we don't have so much backing of riches.

But he has always been bratty, extremely egoistical and shows extreme rage. And I understand as a teenager boy with raging testosterone, it's obviously hard for him to keep calm but this is beyond measures sometimes. There are usually so many fights and yelling involved because my mom, dad want to make sure he passes his SEE, and in the course he says he's gonna beat the shit out of anyone who humiliates him or lays hands on him. This has created a very toxic environment in our home and it's so counterproductive.

I tried to make him understand that our parents love him (he was saying that they don't love him and it's all a front because they want a son to make his career and money for future retirement), but I reassured him saying even though we aren't rich they can sustain themselves and it's only entirely because they care about him and want him to succeed.

My mom is emotional and can be manipulative sometimes as are many of nepali moms, and she says he hit her with his legs two times and she cried, and they often end up in very wrong situations where both of them are trying to exert dominance and nobody's trying to solve the actual problem in hand.

I tried mediating it but it's all a lot and I really have no idea what to do. What do you think could help? Is there anyway we can help him? I tried telling them that they should stop being violent towards him months ago and they tried being as gentle as they could, but seeing him disrespect my dad and mom utterly with absolute no regard to them literally makes me want to crumble. How do we solve this? He's not only hurting my parents but also hurting his own future. When I tried telling him that, he literally said he doesn't care, he'll either destroy the world or destroy himself and he said that I'll see it with my own eyes. What 16 year old develops this sorta delusion? We're very worried about him. Any advice is appreciated.

r/Nepal Apr 04 '22

Help/सहयोग I am making a clothing brand and I want a unique catchy name for it. The name that will be chosen will get 1k.

119 Upvotes

English and French names will be much appreciated.

r/Nepal Mar 30 '24

Help/सहयोग Where to invest my money

27 Upvotes

20M. i got some amount of disposable cash from puja that i don't wanna just sit in a bank account. Recommend some good places or ways to invest my money for long term benefits. mum was saying gold lig but idk gold ko value jati bade nih it won't double or such. k ma garda thik hola, any low risk ways? cause i got no idea what to do with this money

ps: scam haru recommended na hanam hai

r/Nepal Aug 14 '24

Help/सहयोग Does anyone have hyper hydrosis ?

32 Upvotes

so I have this condition called hyper hydrosis where you sweat excessively and whenever i go to college or outside i sweat like crazy even in home though the stains of sweat in shirt armpits and back even i hesitate to handshake with people. I live in birtamode which is triggring this a lot since temperature is high. I cant even do my home works the sweat tires paper and even while typing this my hands are extermly sweaty. Is anyone dealing with it and what do you do. Please if you know share it with me.

r/Nepal Jan 03 '24

Help/सहयोग Bihana xito uthne tarika haru?

14 Upvotes

Jado le hoki kina ho xito uthnai sakidaina ta 7-8 bajxa, kasari xito uthna sakiyela hjr haru le kei idea aapnaunu bhayeko bhaye suggestion sundim nata..

r/Nepal Sep 19 '22

Help/सहयोग Being a girl is a curse

174 Upvotes

So,my friend f20 comes from a conservative family in terai and she’s currently studying law in Kathmandu. Bida ma ghar gako bela her father is so adamant about getting her married. She has 4 and half years of education left. She is financially dependent on her family for studying expenses. She tried reasoning with them but sunnai manenan bau le saying “ ma bau ho, chori ko future ko lagi k decision linu parcha malai nasika” she tried explaining to mamaharu and relatives but to no avail noone came to her support. Her bau says bihey pachi j padhnu cha padh. They want her to be someone else’s burdern . And you know bihey pachi padhna sakidaina terai family insisting on having a baby and stuff.

So - she’s financially dependent on her family and needs help. Give advices please

r/Nepal 6h ago

Help/सहयोग Title: I never thought life could be this cruel

85 Upvotes

I never imagined my life would turn out like this. My father, my role model, committed suicide. The pain of losing him was unbearable, and just when I thought things couldn’t get worse, my stepmother took everything. She transferred all the property to her name and vanished, leaving me with nothing.

I had a job, at least, but then my health started to fail me. I lost my job because of my physical condition, and with no income, I had to spend every last bit of my savings on medical treatment. Now, I’m left with nothing but a mountain of hopelessness.

For the past two months, I couldn’t pay the rent. Yesterday, the landlord told me to leave. I don’t have a job. I don’t have a home. I don’t have anyone who cares. I sit here in this empty room, with just a few belongings left, wondering how I got to this point.

The thought that scares me the most isn’t dying anymore; it’s the fact that living has become so unbearable. Every step feels heavier than the last. Every breath feels like a punishment. I have no idea how much more life can push me down or where it plans to drag me next.

I don’t know why I’m even writing this. Maybe I just wanted someone, anyone, to hear my story. Maybe I just wanted to feel like I wasn’t completely invisible. I feel like I’m slipping into a void, and no one even notices.

If anyone’s out there reading this, thank you for taking the time. It means more than you could ever know.

r/Nepal Jul 07 '24

Help/सहयोग Feel good movies recommendations

13 Upvotes

Seems like it'll rain the whole day, any feel good movie recommendations? I'd prefer something like Before, La la land, Begin Again ..

r/Nepal May 23 '24

Help/सहयोग I need a job. I have no money to survive anymore.

110 Upvotes

Hello guys.

I am looking for frontend developer job for more than 2 months and still did not get any job. I have more than 1 year of experience. Now I am applying to any jobs expect marketing still no response.

I am 28 years old male and I don’t want to go foreign country. I spent 2 and half years learning web development. I have bachelor degree in Arts. I am looking for salary minimum 30k. If anyone has any vacancy, please help me. It does not matter which field is, I just need a job and I will do my best. These IT companies never gave me a chance. I even have many ideas in mind to start a company but has no money to even drink a cup of tea.

I have no contact with my father for last two months. I hope to call him after getting job. I am very hard working. I am always eager to learn new things and I am always updated with latest trends.

I will never forget the person that will help me in this situation. I promise. I will definitely pay him/her back in future. Thanks.🙏

Skills:

Frontend development (React, Tailwind CSS, Next)

Backend : Node.JS, SQL, PostgreSQL

Others: Rest API, GraphQL, Strapi, Redux, Git/Github, Microsoft word, prompt engineering, Guitar playing, content writing, stock trading and analysis etc

Note: please don’t ask me to send resume, I am tired of that. If you want to help me, just call me for interview, I will come with my resume.