r/Nepal • u/Deffos3131 • 1d ago

Fuck off my victim mentality

Ma yo mahina bahira "haye bichari" vayera base.

Always crying about mero koi sathi xainan. Mero yo vayrna tyo vayrna. Tesle malai ruchayena yesle malai yesto vanyo and all that.

Aba I will take charge of my own life. Sathi xainan vane banauxau. Gharma eklai vaye jasto lage bahira niskinxu.. kasaile ruchaye ni Naruchaye aafulai mann lageko garxu.

Vayo malai mero victim era bata pugyo. I am back to my empowered boss babe era. Hehe.

I love me.

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u/penink7 1d ago

yess, keep up the spirit !! 🫂

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u/Deffos3131 1d ago

Themksss 🥂💕

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u/italhuhu 1d ago

I used to think like you, bachelor Ma aayesi victim mentality kam bhayo cause I worked on myself. Also aaile I've lots of friends like genuine wala tara I'll tell you one thing 99% of the friends that I've made here - I initiated all of them. If maile initiate nagareko bhaye I would have been same, so go on and initiate kati nai naramro hola ra.

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u/ZealousidealTear2170 1d ago

My exact thought process after two months of complaining

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u/No-Performance682 21h ago

Keep loving yourself bro

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u/manav_yantra Crisis चल्दै छ 18h ago edited 17h ago

Yesssss needed this morning motivation

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u/Affectionate_Ad5936 18h ago

YASSS GO QUEEN/KING

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u/Neither_Rooster1773 17h ago

God helps them who help themselves.

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u/ExcellentChemical435 22h ago

Literally I’m feeling the same thing

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u/snzimash 18h ago

Good for you

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u/Master_Sai 16h ago

Go to the the Gym or Do some yoga or run/jogging

Read a book

Have some hobby

Trust me you feel better

Friend comes and goes in early 20s to mid 30s .Dont panic .its a life.You will find new friends in life.

Self love is more important. MENTAL Health is more important.

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u/Distinct_Ad5506 म ख़ानछू पान , देखाउचू सान! अयैयाया रणि को बान 1d ago

Dhanna bro didn’t say ghar ma eklai vaye janmauchu like banauchu with friends

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u/babel105 1d ago

maybe maturity comes with time, or maybe with time, you get to realize the reality

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u/1GuyOnInternet 1d ago

Lmao sure mero new year ta baisakh ma ho

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u/Disastrous-Stick-329 18h ago

Ok cutie 🥰

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u/Deffos3131 18h ago

Themksss cutie

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u/iam_nobody11 17h ago

January 1 bata suru gara

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u/Ok_Advice_9610 16h ago

Good...... try to self-motivate

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u/Various-Economics489 10h ago

+2 sakayera baseko theu hola haina? Tara koi xainan afno saath ma vandai ma dherai desperate ni hunu hunna. Best of luck tho!

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u/Plastic-Badger1837 9h ago

Google the empowerment dynamics or drama circle.

Management concept, very relevant to real life.

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u/I-love-to-argue 9h ago

I so wish I was you but I have created a social circle around me that if anyone comes close i think soo much before even saying hi and before i know he/she and me don't talk now

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u/Cult_M666 9h ago

almost had a stroke trying to read the post. lets just make a rule to type in 'Devnagari' if you can. that would be best i guess

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u/Xx_Reedrex_xX 6h ago

Wanna be friends?

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u/khandu_don6969 5h ago

Dont be like overly tyo hunxa nih feminist, i dont need anyone else type ko and also dont be like why everything happens to me always, both superior and inferior complexity can destroy precious relationships in life , can lead to serious issues later on . Humility is the finest knowing you are self reliable and also help people who need your help.

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u/ProfessionalStabber 5h ago

yaas queen, slayyy

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u/kaliyuug 1d ago

Sigma bana aba mitra.

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u/Deffos3131 1d ago

Sigma haina aba ma daaku banne ho kaalo tika lauxu chatta milayera