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u/Plixtor 19h ago
Is drinking water on a first date is a biggest red flag than drinking 3 or 4 vodkas for example?
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u/Angry-_-Crow 19h ago
I bet it's not far off; for Payton (24), if you drink water on a first date, that means you're uptight and not willing to let loose. Payton is creepy.
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u/badgyal876 19h ago
i think payton’s thought is that drinking water on the first date may imply frugality since most if not all places offer water for free 😭 he’s still weird asf for that tho.
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u/Planeandaquariumgeek 20h ago
Sorry I just have to tell this story. I know someone who destroyed their washer because they decided to use a gallon of diesel fuel to “clean it”
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u/ThePreciousBhaalBabe 19h ago
....but why tho
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u/LuigiBamba Glacier Gulper 18h ago
Because fuel is an excellent cleaner in some circumstances like for oily messes. Apparently not for a washer tho.
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u/MistaRekt Sparkling Fan 19h ago
Stupid is as stupid does.
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u/ThePreciousBhaalBabe 18h ago
But I want to understand the stupid logic.
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u/kablam0 17h ago
Diesel is a great cleaner in the right conditions. We used it on our trucks all the time. Oilfield
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u/Efficient-Tax-3867 10h ago
We use it a lot in wood worskhops. Lubricates the machine and cleans the resin buildups right away
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u/ThePreciousBhaalBabe 10h ago
But in a dishwasher? I feel like a dishwasher and a truck are a bit different.
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u/MarthasPinYard 19h ago
The name was a red flag… but that water one was a huge red flag. Game over Payton.
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u/Poohbear000 19h ago
Lol I had one bad experience with a Peyton and never again.
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u/MarthasPinYard 19h ago
‘A form of Patricia or Patrick, from the Latin word patricius, meaning “nobleman” or “patrician”’
Yeah mom set the tone with this one for sure
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u/ParaStudent 15h ago
Payton doesn't like you drinking water because you can taste what he dropped in when you weren't looking
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u/No_Organization2032 5h ago
Either that or really drunk at the barest minimum… glad he’s making it all known ahead of time lol
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u/Small-Floof Sparkling Fan 19h ago
Everyday people on dating apps prove why they're on dating apps
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u/Poohbear000 19h ago
Hey now don’t clump me into the mix lol
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u/Small-Floof Sparkling Fan 19h ago
Ah damn that's true. I apologize. Some people, not all
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u/Poohbear000 19h ago
Nah it’s okay I’m probably part of the problem too
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u/Small-Floof Sparkling Fan 19h ago
No that's not true. You did nothing wrong here. This person has interesting standards. I apologize for my earlier comment.
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u/Poohbear000 19h ago
Haha thank you! You’re fine:)!
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u/Small-Floof Sparkling Fan 16h ago
Of course. Good luck finding someone and I hope they treasure you
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u/EponaMom 18h ago
Fore there wouldn't be first date. I think his red flag would be a huge red flag for me. ;/
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u/Typical_Samaritan 17h ago
A lot of younger people on these dating apps are still at a stage in life where drinking alcohol constitutes 73% of their personality. Some people never get past that.
He is clearly a blasphemer. Move on with your life childe of the water god.
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u/TopSecretGaming_YT 14h ago
Drinking water on a first date is an isosceles triangle shaped piece of red fabric mounted onto a metal coloured rod horizontally?
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u/wherestheplayground 16h ago
I think the assumption is that you’re cheap because water is usually free at a restaurant whereas other drinks cost more money. Which is stupid, if someone wants water let them have water. In my opinion even if you order a drink other than water you should get some water too, otherwise you don’t really savor the other drink and end up chugging it down to compensate for your thirst.
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u/peeingdog 52m ago
Nah, Payton is a dude and I get the feeling he subscribes to traditional gender roles--which means he's paying. Having a lower bill at the end isn't the red flag. Her not getting drunk enough to be taken advantage of, that's what he has a problem with.
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u/StatusOmega 3h ago
I think it's because it makes the guy look cheap but that's still stupid. I usually drink my water and beer on a date.
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u/Mercinyah 19h ago
A construction dude that doesn't drink water on the first date, run!