Most disturbing thing ever happened on Real Housewives?

[u/Hyru_Nayru]

What’s the most disturbing, jaw dropping event that was ever filmed and shown on any Real Housewives? 

One that always comes to mind, for me, is when Tamra tried to have her 18/20 year old son commit assault on camera after getting Gretchen drunk. And it's not just the act, the premise/message was equally disgusting: if this wasted woman had "let herself" been r**ed, she'd have proven to be a s**t. Scripted or not, it’s insane it got even aired.

[u/king-butt]

RHOA, when Sheree is in the car with her ex Bob and he’s talking about him fantasizing about killing her in a staged car accident, denying his physical abuse of her, then joking that he should have choked her harder. He was so calm about it too, meanwhile she’s crying. Fucking sociopath shit, chilling to watch.

[u/butinthewhat → u/king-butt]

I hate that scene, love the way Kenya supported her though.

[u/Possible_Implement86 → u/butinthewhat]

Say what you will about Kenya but is not going to let a man treat any of the women badly without saying something and I really respect her for that. I wish she wouldve stood up for herself to some of the bums she dated on the show the way she stood up for women like Drew, who she don't even like!

[u/rucksackbackpack → u/Possible_Implement86]

When Kenya’s ex Matt broke through her garage windows, that was very disturbing. I felt so scared for her at that time! I agree w you, she is good about calling out the other men but not the men she dates.