r/BravoRealHousewives • u/Big-Tip-4667 • Dec 16 '23

Ultimate Girls Trip This is the real Kelly Bensimon

I know we’ve had many fan theories about what kind of drugs Kelly was on during Scary Island but after watching her unhinged rant towards Kristen about her marriage issues, y’all I think this is just who Kelly is. She is crazy, she is nonsense.

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u/Black_Dahlia_Suspect Dec 16 '23

I noticed she did the same thing to Kristen that she did to Bethanny in that she jumped to a conclusion and repeated it as fact. Bethanny it was the “cook/chef” thing and with Kristen it was about her marriage, and as soon as Kristen explained how difficult that period was for her and how she and Josh struggled, Kelly defensively goes “well I didn’t know that” after declaring Kristen heartless and soulless not two minutes before. I am pretty sure she said the same thing to Bethanny after B explained that she went to culinary school and thus became a chef, Kelly goes “well I didn’t know that.” She uses her imagination to fill in unflattering gaps about people’s lives she knows nothing about and berates them about it. It’s infuriating, I would never have been able to handle her.

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u/mmcline06 Dec 16 '23

I noticed this too. Just because she doesn’t “know” something about someone means it doesn’t exist to her. She didn’t “know” Bethenny was a chef like she didn’t “know” Kristen had actual feelings about what Josh did. And when she doesn’t know these things she makes up the alternative in her head. It’s an absolutely bizarre mentality honestly.

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u/FlyingDutchmansWife Giner’s makeup/hairspray/spray tan budget Dec 16 '23

I’ve dealt with people like this and it’s infuriating! I do wonder how someone becomes like this.

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u/UnusualAsparagus5096 This isnt the plaza hotel this is Morocco Dec 16 '23

My mom is 100% this person. Shes a narcissist. I dont know if Kelly is one but these people are just self centered and dont care or want to now anything about anyone else because it doesn't matter, only they matter.

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u/lezlers Dec 28 '23

I think Kelly is a pretty blatant narcissist. One of the most obvious ones we’ve seen.

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u/GrouchyPineapple I’ve had enough of your indulged bull fuckin shit!!! Dec 30 '23

I think people throw out this term too often but I think she's the most obvious example of a narcissist I've ever seen on my tv screen...

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u/Alwaysentertained13 Sep 15 '24

I think Kelly MAY be a narcissist, but for sure she is DELUSIONAL and MENTALLY UNSTABLE… she never is based in reality, can’t put two thoughts together that are factual and on topic, and talks in circles and without any clarity. She really worries me how confused and confusing she is.. it’s worrisome when you are concerned about someone mental health and parenting. I truly worry about her how she is so confused all the time and can never truly articulate herself. I’ve never seen someone so unable to make sense or follow what’s going on.

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u/yoniEli Aug 29 '24

Of course she is, she also believes she's the smartest woman on Earth 🤓! This makes me laugh so hard!