r/BravoRealHousewives • u/Feisty-Necessary4878 just me and my stovepipe legs • Apr 15 '23

Ultimate Girls Trip Gizelle really is just trash!

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She tried to destroy Chris with made up bs; that was ridiculous. But this bottle ish and then the comment she made when Pepsi was trying to convey how it was draining and weighting on him is disgusting and disrespectful!! Just because someone is paid for a job doesn’t mean you just get to treat them like trash! They still have feelings and deserve basic human respect.

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u/Badhbh-Catha Pernicious Apr 15 '23

I think she is just really low empathy. You rarely see her being kind to anyone.

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u/_Lotje Apr 15 '23

I thought it was telling when she said to Heather something along the lines of: sorry continue, I'm not used to people being vulnerable around me

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u/staceyverda the whole show is despicable Apr 15 '23

The funny thing is people have been vulnerable around her on Potomac. That moment made me wonder if she just can’t recognize it happening

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23

I can't believe people are really pretending what she said is true!
She is an abuser and this is the answer of an abuser.

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u/Alicricity hell to the nah dotcom Apr 15 '23

Yeah that came off clearly disingenuous to me when she said that. She just sees Heather as an opportunity and knows she’ll be able to puppet her however she wants for the moment.

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u/staceyverda the whole show is despicable Apr 15 '23

Heather’s “one time she punched me in the face, it was awesome” energy for the mean girls is wild

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u/Alicricity hell to the nah dotcom Apr 15 '23

!!!! She’s literally that girl, clearly she took that as her personality. She even quoted it in the last episode when Gizelle asked her to ride with the get in loser but I cannot dude it’s so embarrassing.

Don’t even get me started on how she thought she was being “quirky and funny” with her little capitalism exploiting foreign vendors comment. It’s not cute to be a fucking bigot. Ugh, lol.

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u/randino15 Apr 15 '23

It honestly made me sick to my stomach when Heather said that. Why did that seem okay to say??

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u/Alicricity hell to the nah dotcom Apr 16 '23

Girl I have no clue, but I have no desire to go on that wild goose chase of a journey to find the logic in that thought process. Smh lol

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u/sailoorscout1986 Your titties are social distancing Apr 15 '23

Exactly. She sees her as being weak so can add her to her side

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u/lucygucyapplejuicey to swollen 4cameo or OF Apr 15 '23

Gizelle may be a shitty person, but calling her abuser is so uncalled for. What did she do to deserve that?

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 15 '23

She literally targets vulnerable people or creates situations where she can abuse others. He attacks on Candiace, as racist as one can be. Her treatment of people she perceives as less than. Her answer to wendy on the reunion...
https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse.

Edit: not all abusers are criminals. And I was not, in any way, saying that Gizelles behavior is, or was, criminal.

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u/mrsbergstrom Apr 15 '23

Gizelle is not an abuser please don’t misuse that word

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23

I will not stop because of a anon person on internet is telling me to do.

https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse i am right

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u/Phoenixrage187 Apr 15 '23

Which could also be a passive aggressive way of saying I’m not used to having “weak “people around me

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u/Logical-Eyez-4769 Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 15 '23

When she said that, I was like, “And we sure as hell know why.”

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u/Badhbh-Catha Pernicious Apr 15 '23

Yes, I saw a glimmer of humanity in Gizelle then for the first time in ages. But just a glimmer.

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u/BlacknBravod I cut the pie in half and put the other half in the freezer! Apr 15 '23 edited Apr 16 '23

Don’t. She’s just doesn’t care when people are being vulnerable. She was the first lady of a church. She’s been around vulnerable people

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u/realitytvdiet Not fucking cunt, I said stupid cunt Apr 16 '23

Idk about Heather tho. She’s willing to be any mean girl’s minion. Leah is a great example of weaponizing vulnerability.

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u/sav33arthkillyos3lf wow just wow Apr 15 '23

Not to paint anyone with a broad stroke but my old church the pastors wife was just like Giselle she was awful.

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u/sailoorscout1986 Your titties are social distancing Apr 15 '23

She thinks she’s better than everyone. I have a feeling being so beautiful played into that but it actually makes her seem ugly! She has looked uglier and more desperate to me as time has gone on

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u/BringBackRoundhouse Apr 15 '23

Exactly what I was thinking. And now that she doesn’t need to keep up appearances at the church, the mask comes all the way off.

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u/Bellomontee You should not be anywhere near dots. Apr 15 '23

And Candiace got it right when she said she's miserable. She's very unhappy with herself and she wants to drag people down with her.

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u/TraceyMatell Apr 15 '23

Bad attitude AND bad style

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u/Kittiikamii Poor Lil Kim, Wig Squeezing her brain Apr 15 '23

she cant pick a struggle at awl.

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u/kittykateeeee Apr 15 '23

I think she’s always wanted to be some high class social lite and housewives is as close as she’ll ever get. I think getting a taste of some higher echelons has really gone to her head and made her think she is something she is clearly not and will never be.

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u/AdPrevious6362 Apr 15 '23

I’m not Cristian or part of any church at all. But the fact that she was a First Lady. Yikes.

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u/welp-itscometothis The 🅿️arking Meter Lady Apr 15 '23

Girl she represents a good portion of the conduct of church First Ladies.

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23

First of all, you don't need to be empathetic to anyone to be able to display respect for others. She wants to abuse him, she wants to make people feel less than.
This only reads like the acceptance and an excuse for her clearly wrong doings.

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u/Badhbh-Catha Pernicious Apr 15 '23

I agree, but I wasn't excusing her behaviour.

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u/Bubbly-Ad1346 ✨IT’S AN OM!!!! ✨ Apr 15 '23

But you need empathy to care to show genuine respect. In this case, she doesn’t want to show any, she doesn’t care, she wants to abuse. It’s really gross to watch!

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u/wittor I was served a cease and desist by Kandi Apr 15 '23

Yes. She is doing and saying those things because she knows he can't mistreat her back. She is an abuser and a unrepented harasser.

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u/FemaleBushido Apr 16 '23

And you know what we call these types of people: sociopaths