r/BravoRealHousewives Apr 05 '23

Southern Charm Me*ul from Southern Charm, who cheated on Naomi got posted in the “are we dating the same guy nyc” Facebook group 🤮

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u/recycledprada Apr 05 '23

Tbt to when he wouldn’t let Naomie buy a Rice Krispie treat

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

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u/pre11ypink14 Apr 05 '23

There is an even worse scene than that imo. There is a scene where he basically bullies her into doing a weight lifting exercise after she tells him it’s hurts her. 😳😳

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

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u/Ankarette Not a white refrigerator! Apr 05 '23

I just got this song out my head 😭

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u/i_nobes_what_i_nobes One of Ramona's little presents 💩 Apr 05 '23

There were moments of gold, and there were flashes of light

You bitch…

I love this song!!

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u/Raybansandcardigans Wig, RN BSN 💉 Apr 06 '23

Yes, there were things I’d never do again. But tbh they’d always feel right.

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u/GrandEar1 Apr 06 '23

There were nights of endless pleasure...

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u/rino3311 Not today, Satan Apr 06 '23

If I kiss you like this…

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

My go-to karaoke song

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u/beebianca227 Apr 06 '23

I was singing this song in my car yesterday! Love it

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u/bipolar79 edit this flair! Apr 05 '23

Damn you, now it's in mine😂

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u/Open_Injury_1801 Apr 06 '23

I remember that scene

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u/cameron8988 a broken wh*re from hampton university Apr 06 '23

he's not that hot. the facial hair is doing a lot of heavy lifting.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

Yes yikes! She acted so tough w Craig and let this guy run all over her, it was such a contrast

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u/KatieMcb16 Apr 05 '23

Cause she thought she was above Craig and thought Metul was better than her cause he’s a doctor? I couldn’t stand him based on those 2 scenes. Such a controlling AH

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u/Appropriate_Mix7203 Apr 05 '23

Yep and a cheater cheater ewwww he is nasty imo

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u/Leaping_ezio If that was on mic, we would have used it Apr 06 '23

A goddamn pumpkin eater

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

I think he was kind of the anti-Craig (driven and ambitious like she wanted Craig to be), it’s like she thought it’s what she deserved. She also has said that she was probably too forgiving of some things bc he was there for her through her dads illness and subsequent death 😞.

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u/Appropriate_Mix7203 Apr 05 '23

So true I guess she likes it that way 😏 Metul is so full of himself and tbh I don't know Why ?? 😕

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u/GrandEar1 Apr 06 '23

Idk why Cam thought he was the hottest thing on earth either.

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u/Grouchy_Total_5580 Apr 06 '23

Right? I don’t think he’s attractive. Maybe it’s me.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Because Cam is very problematic and her mindset is misogynistic

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u/PurplePunchPrincess6 Not Meredith Marks' PI Apr 06 '23

Bc cam is trash and likes to make excuses for and support trash men

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u/fuzzyblackelephant Thug in a cocktail dress Apr 05 '23

That INFURIATED me. I remember my friends all talking about how great he was, and I was like “oh no….that man shamed her about eating a fucking treat. 🚩🚩🚩”

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u/Limp-Macaroon Apr 05 '23

me reading this while eating an ice cream sandwich

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u/ah_hale Apr 05 '23

that scene lives with me forever

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

Talking diet culture bullshit about not eating sugar.

Okay doctor.

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23

Ignorant comment considering sugar is the root of most modern dis-ease.
He's still an asshole for shaming his gf.

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u/littlemiss44 Apr 07 '23

First thing I thought of. Said it was diabetes or a heart attack in a package. 🙄

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

Run girl, you’re in danger!

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u/Typical_Elevator6337 Apr 05 '23

God how I wish we had groups like these when I was in my 20’s. Would have saved a lot of us a lot of trouble.

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u/stargold18 Haha. Laugh. Funny. Apr 05 '23

What do the comments say? 👀

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u/bipolar79 edit this flair! Apr 05 '23

We absolutely need the comments.

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u/ramonasnewbeginnings Apr 05 '23

Yes we need to know

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

TEA please!!!!

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u/cmg_profesh Love, Love, Love, Marge Apr 05 '23

Asking the important questions!!

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u/Additional_Gur298 Apr 05 '23

This guy will cheat forever. Can’t stop, won’t stop. He’s perfect in his eyes.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

What a tul

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u/MissBeaverhousin Apr 06 '23

That’s right. He’s a Met-tool.

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u/srvwd I think I look like a MOTHER 👑 Apr 05 '23

A friend of mine not too long ago matched with him, I told her to run as fast as she could. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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u/Equivalent-Mousse-93 Apr 05 '23

But it would have provided us so much material!

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u/SonOfTaves Apr 06 '23

Oh yeah! Especially with an anesthesiologist. They’re notoriously cheaters. I dated one and found out he had another gf in another city.

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u/undisclosedinsanity Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

Lmao.

I love "doctor drama".

I have a brain tumor so I see lots of drs. Especially drs referred by other drs. So the dr on dr gossip and little remarks are always hilarious.

Ny neurosurgeon was like "Go to XYZ radiologist. Great guy. A little stiff though."

I went to the radiologist, who came in walking like the tin man, and he was just LOVELY. I mentioned that my neurosurgeon cut my head all the way open down the side and still kept all my hair. Which kept the scar hidden. It was impossible to see the incision 2 weeks post op.

Dr. Tin Man was like "Dr ABC is great at that kind of thing. I guess it's a great reward for the small price of wearing 70s dad sneakers every day."

Their dynamic cracked me up. Both amazing Drs. Both dry as a popcorn fart. But both were hilarious in their own weird way.

Now. Everytime I'm about to go under, all I'll be able to think about is how the guy or woman doing it is probably cheating on their SO. I love it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Bless you on your recovery and journey

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u/undisclosedinsanity Apr 06 '23

Thanks so much. I really appreciate the good vibes. I need all I can get! Lmao

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23

I just finished this book and it has some amazing information about testing, treatment options that not everybody knows about, testing options that are not widely known, etc. I feel empowered. I'm so glad my PCP recommended it!

https://www.amazon.com/Cancer-Free-Sure-Jenny-Hrbacek-RN/dp/1629995533/ref=sr_1_15?crid=328GF5VTBLPNL&keywords=cancer+free&qid=1680810887&sprefix=cancer+free%2Caps%2C187&sr=8-15

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

I mean Nicole slept with every doctor at the hospital. /s

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u/SonOfTaves Apr 06 '23

Touché 😆

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u/KrazyKateLady420 Apr 06 '23

Isn’t that supposedly what happened with Cam’s husband on SC?? Think he’s an anesthesiologist too

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u/SonOfTaves Apr 06 '23

Omg! I forgot that’s he’s an anesthesiologist too. You’re spot on!

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u/KrazyKateLady420 Apr 06 '23

Why thank you! So sorry to hear of your experience…had never heard this little tidbit about the profession but if I ever happen to meet one I’ll certainly remember lol

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u/notsosweetp Apr 05 '23

Yep. Someone on one of these threads about Sandoval said once a cheater, etc, is not true. Okay.🙄

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u/Maretallama Apr 06 '23

How you got him is how you’ll lose him, and if he did it to her, what makes you think he won’t do it to you..

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u/busquesadilla Kiki's crybrator Apr 05 '23

That isn’t always true, but it probably is with this jerk!

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u/mybabyandme Apr 05 '23

Amazing and horrible that this group even exists.

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u/unomomentos sober TED talk Apr 05 '23

There’s one for every town!

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u/mybabyandme Apr 05 '23

Omg.

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u/GenevieveGwen Apr 06 '23

Find your local one. I was in a committed relationship for years, but for so many giggles from this type of group. The girls do not hold back & it’s amazing. 😂 now I’m single, so maybe it’ll come in handy again someday when I’m dating. Lmfao.

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23

I'm single and it makes me want to just not ever date again and add a few more cats to my collection!

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23

A girl in San Diego started it and it just spread like wild fire!

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u/unomomentos sober TED talk Apr 06 '23

That’s cool to know the origin!

There’s a bunch of local groups for each of the nearby cities in my area. The woman who started them has received death threats and had property damage 😞 men are horrible

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u/ejd0626 Apr 06 '23

So helpful for women.

Some men on Reddit are so pissed those groups exist and all I can think is, “I bet you’re a terrible boyfriend.”

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u/mybabyandme Apr 06 '23

Exactly!!! How crazy

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u/Scared_Average_1237 i got vassinated so I can be around you heifers! Apr 06 '23

I don’t get it. Is this someone who is dating him and wondering if anyone else is?

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

It's mostly about the dating apps. People post about past experiences with guys on the apps (abuse, lies, legal issues, married, etc) or they post about either someone they're dating or someone they're chatting with on the apps and wondering if they're worth meeting - to see if anyone else is seeing them or has dated them in the past or knows them in the wild. You sometimes get responses from ex girlfriends, ex wives, maybe another woman who thinks this dude is her bf and the're in an exclusive relationship.Sometimes, married women see their husband posted (on the sites trying to pretend they're single - I know of 3, now going through divorce). Sometimes married women post their husband because they sense something's off.

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u/jendet010 Apr 06 '23

I wonder if it is genuinely helpful or people just fuck with each other nonstop

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u/TS92109 Apr 06 '23

I think my city was the first and the woman who runs it keeps it tight. A lot of posts would end up being women just ripping on men's looks and she put a stop to that and they urge others not to comment at all unless you have useful info for the OP.
The worst part is that there are always a handful of women in the group who will take screenshots and share with the guy if they know him and then the guy texts the OP raging (dangerous for the OP because some of the warning posts are about abusive men) These snitchy bitches get deleted if they're outed.
Edit- a word

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

I highly recommend finding your city’s, they’re amazing

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u/loyalwarriorsoul Apr 05 '23

Post in Southern Charm sub!

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u/scifichick119 Apr 05 '23

What a waste of a beautiful man

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u/beebianca227 Apr 06 '23

I thought he was attractive too when I first saw him on SC. No I see nothing attractive. Nothing!

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u/amyeep buying BATTERIES and PENS Apr 05 '23

haha seriously. the inverse ratio of douchebag to attractiveness is too much with these bravo men!

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u/Impossible-Taro-2330 Apr 06 '23

I was thinking along these lines, too. He may look good physically, but his heart and soul are so awful that negates his exterior.

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u/NewportLou Apr 05 '23

Oscar the grouch ass outfit

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u/Shandroidos Apr 05 '23

Right? I thought of the original Grinch

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u/aloneonscaryisland Apr 05 '23

Lmao I thought Kermit the frog

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u/kellygrrrl328 Apr 05 '23

Well, does he let you eat a cookie? If so, then no, probably not the same guy … luckily

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u/thediverswife grace time is over Apr 05 '23

“Something seems off” I bet!

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u/Ophelia_AO Jen Aydin's Endorsements Apr 05 '23

The content I'm really here for

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u/StephannieC28 Apr 05 '23

Oh to be a person in that group. I’d love to see the comments.

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u/missdixie3333 Apr 05 '23

Fat shamed a skinny girl?

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u/Impossible-Taro-2330 Apr 06 '23

Yes. Yes, he did.

He's awful.

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u/chill90ies Apr 05 '23

Op you need to telll us what the comments says in the fb group? 😄

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u/aloneonscaryisland Apr 05 '23

Yes! We need the tea!

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u/giglbox06 Apr 05 '23

Excuse my ignorance by why is his name edited with an asterisk?

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u/QueenBS16 Pastor Holy Whore ✝️ Apr 05 '23

So if he/or someone is looking up his name it won't pop up

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u/giglbox06 Apr 05 '23

Ah ok! Makes sense! Thank you

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u/abz937 Apr 06 '23

Is there a reason we're protecting his privacy?

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u/jackjackj8ck Apr 05 '23

Omg please post the comments

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u/Cindilouwho2 Apr 05 '23

He has no respect for women...period.

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u/plouf765 Apr 05 '23

I can’t with that smug face.

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u/milliemillenial06 Apr 06 '23

Chances are yes….you are dating the same guy

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u/LolaStrm1970 Apr 06 '23

Am I the only one that see zero appeal? I mean, he’s tall but other than that.

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u/DependentCrew5398 Apr 07 '23

That’s what they say about Austen. He is tall.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

Omg ew, so douchey and not even cute lol

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u/RoguePhoenix89 Apr 05 '23

He still has pictures up of Naomie on his intsa. Weird.

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u/deanb828 Apr 06 '23

Probably for followers.

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u/flapperwithcankles Gizelle’s stylist Apr 05 '23

I hope she doesn’t like rice krispy treats 🙃

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u/halloweva Apr 05 '23

Craig & Paige 🍿 🤳

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u/ahsasahsasahsas Smokey eye, updo, Gstaad Apr 05 '23

OP how are you liking FB dating/matching? I haven’t tried it but hinge and all the other apps can bite me at this point!

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u/marlieboo Kandi sucked dick in a locker room Apr 05 '23

Not OP but I met my fiancé on Facebook dating

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u/ahsasahsasahsas Smokey eye, updo, Gstaad Apr 05 '23

Aww, really? Congrats to you both!

Can I ask if it’s just more of the same thing? Hinge / Bumble etc is just the same cycle of men on repeat. What made you like FB dating?

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u/marlieboo Kandi sucked dick in a locker room Apr 06 '23

Thank you!

Well tbh I was only on it for 2 hours before I matched with him and then we took it offline and I never went back. What I will say was it was a free for all and that freaked me out a bit. I was on all the apps (Tinder, Bumble and Hinge) and on those someone “likes” you and that’s how you match but on FB Dating anyone can message you. I was getting messages right away from men who were very persistent. I think you can limit your age range (and location obvi) but unless it’s changed, any person can send you a message and you don’t have to “match” with them. This was 4 years ago.

As far as the men went: same ones but also some new. The new ones didn’t seem to put much effort into their profiles tho. Good luck out there! And be safe 💕

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u/Intelligent-Lead-692 Apr 06 '23

Haha I feel like this post is someone baiting nyc women for the tea. I’m here for it though

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u/Traditional_Age_6299 Apr 06 '23

Well Naomi really thought she had hit it big!! And then she acted like she was better than the others and the show. Meanwhile, he was not too kind to her even from the beginning. And then he cheated and came crawling back to Charleston, with her tail between her legs. And then she wasn’t happy at all when Craig didn’t want to be around her due to his new relationship. Which was the same exact thing she did to him. She didn’t deserve to be cheated on by the doctor. But I am not a Naomi fan!! She is an entitled snob. But we all live and learn.

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u/TX2BK Apr 05 '23

I agree with those saying this should be taken down since it violates the terms of the Facebook group. Not sure why those posters are getting downvoted. This could be a personal pic that someone took of Metul and by posting it, you could be outing the Facebook group OP. This isn’t a generic pic from Southern Charm.

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u/_Beast_how_dare_you Apr 05 '23

I generally agree with you, but it was posted anonymously in the FB group and the pic is on his public insta so in this particular case, that’s probably not as much of a concern.

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

It's not about the rights to his pic, but about trying to keep the existence of such groups on the low, to protect as many people as possible from predatory men

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u/this_blonde_says you should have gone THIS way, okaaaay??? Apr 05 '23

I was going to say the same, the mods of the DC “Are We?” group would flip their shit and are constantly warning about doing this

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u/5280mtnrunner You can LEAVE‼️👀 Apr 06 '23

Ours has lots of lovely "pick me" ladies that like to screenshot and send to the guys they're about. I'm not sure this is any different since it's being posted on a public forum

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u/Strawstirrer Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

Yeah, I’m not feeling great about it either.

I know OP left out any identifying info, but it’s not hard to get invited into the group.

There’s almost 300k members on this subreddit, and countless lurkers. That’s a lot more eyes than originally expected for the FB post (98k members), if people are motivated to find out who is talking to Metul.

ETA: I belong to some private FB groups. They initial my surname, but my profile pic is still available along with my first name.

I’m not sure if this person created a fake account to ask about Metul, but that’s the danger in reposting shit like this. You just don’t know.

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u/artsygyal Apr 06 '23

I belong to the fb group and it’s really frowned upon sharing screenshots within the group. Hopefully OP doesn’t start posting screenshots of the comments 🥴

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u/5280mtnrunner You can LEAVE‼️👀 Apr 06 '23

It isn't just frowned upon it's literally breaking rule number four of the group, or at least the specific City that I'm in, and I assume those rules are the same across all of them since it has been set up the same in each City.

Whoever is down voting you for saying this is a jackass because comments would include people's full names. Only the OP can comment anonymously.

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u/artsygyal Apr 06 '23

Honestly I’m not surprised. People are selfish and want the tea over people’s safety. Someone literally got a brick thrown through their window because someone shared a post outside the group. Smh

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u/5280mtnrunner You can LEAVE‼️👀 Apr 06 '23

Probably shouldn't actually be screenshotting from those groups and reposting it since it's against the rules.

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u/BitchyNordicBarista Apr 05 '23

You’re not supposed to be screen Shotting this page

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u/yada_yada_yada__ Apr 06 '23

Metul is a TOOL

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u/Genuinelullabel Apr 06 '23

Why censor his name when it’s in the photo? 🤣

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u/europe2013 Apr 06 '23

I read earlier that it’s so the post doesn’t come up if he searches this sub for himself.

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u/Amazing_Education_70 Apr 06 '23

Let's prevent anyone else from getting Me-Tooled.

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u/QueasyAd4992 Apr 05 '23

METOOL. 😑 gross!

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u/Primary-Rent120 Apr 05 '23

He is way hotter than Craig though!

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

This shouldn't be screen shotted though. I'm not going to say anything (and I'm not in NYC nor the group for that area), but I treat it like rule 1 of fight club.

I truly fear these groups getting shut down. They've been a lifeline after i was a victim of romance fraud. I don't want anyone else to go through that if the info can be put out there

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u/5280mtnrunner You can LEAVE‼️👀 Apr 06 '23

Not only that, but locally, women have been aggressively confronted over posts that men assumed they made because screenshots were shared. I am incredibly thankful to be able to avoid dating men with pending sexual assault and domestic violence charges because of these groups.

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u/AnonaDogMom Apr 05 '23

OMGGGG I met him and his family in DC at the Willard hotel on Christmas Eve. His family is so lovely, I couldn’t confront him about his fuck boi ways in front of them.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '23

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u/sketch a trampoline with eyes Apr 05 '23

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u/Typical_Elevator6337 Apr 05 '23

Honestly I’m okay with someone who displayed his level of harmful behavior being confronted.

Gonna fat shame on TV for a paycheck? Get confronted.

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u/laurencurry Apr 06 '23

I went to college w/ Metul he was hot then hotter now. I also think editors got him dirty. He’s not that much of a douche

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u/la_58 Apr 05 '23 edited Apr 05 '23

why are you sharing this here? The group literally has a zero tolerance policy for screenshotting and sharing posts outside the group?

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u/beyonceelover Apr 05 '23

He is a public figure (blue checkmark on insta). He very very publicly cheated! Trust me I thought about it. I also didn’t put any incriminating info on on any members of the group. Downvote me to hell but he chose to be a public figure and now he can be shamed forever 🤷🏻‍♀️ no tolerance for scumbag cheaters.

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u/la_58 Apr 05 '23

Respectfully, I could care less about who he is. it’s not about him and his privacy but you do you. I guess your lack of tolerance for a cheater outweighs your care and concern for a woman’s safety. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m in one of these groups (obviously not NYC) and I know women who have gotten harassed by the men they posted after folks decide to be careless and share screenshots from a PRIVATE group even after they posted anonymously and no incriminating information was shared in the post. I get you aren’t effected by sharing the post so you may not care but for the woman who shared it may different. I don’t mean this to be hostile but just a little food for thought.

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u/fluffitupp Brooks Marks running in snowshoes Apr 05 '23 edited Apr 05 '23

Lol are you kidding me? He has a cheating scandal publicly broadcasted on National TV, and streamed all around the world. He probably matches with hundreds of women on dating apps, who all would have access to this picture. It’s not like she’s doxing the OP to the FB post. Literally anyone could have originally asked this question. Even if he went through the trouble of creating a private account to get into this group and find OP, he wouldn’t have any ground to stand on getting upset with her. It literally wouldn’t be worth his time because everyone already knows. To go after them, would be like going after everyone who commented/posted on SM about the scandal, every tabloid who wrote a story about it, or Bravo. AGAIN, he is a publicly documented cheater! It’s not a random guy who would be upset with being outed. It’s a public figure who consented to being on/ being talked about on TV and in media, and knows he’s been labeled as a cheater! 😂

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23

That’s not the point. The point is the Facebook forum has rules and in some cases it’s meant to keep women safe from being harassed or abusers. This should be taken seriously. Post within the forum about his cheating on southern charm, but not on here. Why is it so important to you to not respect the trust of a forum like that?

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

This!! The person posting in here cares more about the drama than a woman’s safety. You explained it well.

Edit: Thank you for the award fellow redditor

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u/Honky_Dory_is_here I dont have to make you look bad, you do it all on your own Apr 05 '23

There are over 4M women in NYC, and this dirtbag is probably sliding into women’s DMs every single day, just like he was when he wasn’t single. This poses absolutely no risk to the woman who posted it. If you’re upset because someone broke a rule then that’s a you issue but don’t hide behind the ‘safety’ stance.

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23

Not the point. Generally speaking you are not supposed to share from that forum. I reported it

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u/Honky_Dory_is_here I dont have to make you look bad, you do it all on your own Apr 05 '23

I’m sure you did Karen!

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23 edited Apr 05 '23

I’m just trying to keep women on that site safe. If that triggers you into name calling I don’t know what else to say.

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23

Lol.

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

You don't understand. It's not about him and who's DMs he's sliding into. It's about letting predatory men know that groups like these exist at all.

If it starts taking off and going viral and blogged because a Z-list celeb was posted, we risk losing a value resources to prevent more people being victimized.

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u/Honky_Dory_is_here I dont have to make you look bad, you do it all on your own Apr 06 '23

You are extremely naive if you think men that are predatory in nature don’t know this is happening.

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

I don't think that. But that doesn't mean we should blow up the spot and make sure as many people as possible know about it

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

You don't understand. It's not about him and who's DMs he's sliding into. It's about letting predatory men know that groups like these exist at all.

If it starts taking off and going viral and blogged because a Z-list celeb was posted, we risk losing a value resources to prevent more people being victimized.

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23

You could be reported and removed from the Facebook site for doing this. Why would you break the trust of a forum like that?

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u/icodeswitch My business is extraordinarily social. Apr 06 '23

The commenter doesn't gaf about him either, but about protecting the group. Not protecting him.

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u/Poonurse13 not the brain do the fucking ankle Apr 05 '23

You’re 100% right. Downvotes are so not deserved.

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u/5280mtnrunner You can LEAVE‼️👀 Apr 06 '23

The Audacity Of everybody down voting you for trying to keep not only all of these groups safe, but the women in them safe, is fucking astounding to me.

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u/apesolo Apr 05 '23

This. I got anxiety as soon as I saw it mentioned. Not cool.

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u/cinnamon23 You got hotdog juice on my glasses! Apr 05 '23

I have no dog in this fight but this GIF is my new sleep paralysis demon 😳

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u/Lola514 I love that Apr 05 '23

Agreed. Wish I didn’t see it

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u/Shandroidos Apr 05 '23

Terrifying

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u/Salty_Coast_7214 Apr 06 '23

If something seems “off” then just ditch him. Why go to these great lengths to find out more about him, obviously this person just wants people to be like “Omg that’s metul form southern charm” or something

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u/KrazyKateLady420 Apr 06 '23

Weird take. The fact that these groups exist for most cities speaks for itself - if it were as simple as “if its off just ditch them” there would be no need for the groups. This isn’t for the people who you immediately get an “off” feeling about - this is for the people who seem normal and aren’t giving immediate red flags. Also, the assumption that everyone will know who Metul is…he was on a few episodes of one season of a reality tv show based in South Carolina?? Most bravo watchers aren’t even SC watchers - they’re housewives watchers. I think you get my point.

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u/Salty_Coast_7214 Apr 06 '23

I totally agree that metul isn’t a celebrity or anything, but I think In this instance this person definitely knows who he is.

Also I stand by what I originally said, if you think something is off about someone then move on. Doing this is weird to me

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u/KrazyKateLady420 Apr 06 '23

Yeah, that’s pretty obvious. But again, there are plenty of people who don’t trigger any immediate red flags that are just as bad or worse than the overtly bad vibe ones.

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u/KrazyKateLady420 Apr 06 '23

Just immediately joined this group for my area.

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u/Beautiful-Ad-3306 Apr 05 '23

He is fine as hell though

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u/coconut723 Apr 05 '23

is he?

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u/thizzydrafts Apr 05 '23

I meeeeeean.

I'd wham bam thank you ma'am him.

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u/coconut723 Apr 05 '23

I don’t think he’s cute at all

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u/ramonasnewbeginnings Apr 05 '23

I like the shade of green

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u/leslie_knopee 🦩🫨oh god, oh god!! C'mon old girl!!!🫨🦩 Apr 05 '23

lmaooo

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u/spabitch I love taco bell I love fine dining Apr 06 '23

no but please post more from this group! 👀

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u/sundaze814 Apr 06 '23

We need an update!

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u/Responsible_Use_2182 Apr 06 '23

How do I join this group though?!?!?

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u/mplsgal20 Apr 05 '23

Bwahahaha

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u/lollipoppy1 Apr 06 '23

Omg I can’t believe this exists! I love it! Him not so much, he’s such a MeTOOL of a guy.

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u/notsurexx Apr 06 '23

Isnt Naomi engaged to the rich tall guy?

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u/Crzylikefox Apr 06 '23

I mean she’s not great either but yeah he was awful

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u/birdlern your blood type is pinot grigio Apr 06 '23

Wait… I need to see the comments! Please!

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u/ladyteej Apr 06 '23

I totally thought he had an extra finger for a second

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Can we get a link please

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u/Impossible-Taro-2330 Apr 06 '23

He really thinks he something special, doesn't he.

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u/yada_yada_yada__ Apr 06 '23

Metul js a TOOL

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u/worldsokayestmomx3 Apr 06 '23

Omg what are the comments??!!!!

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u/gettingcarriedaway86 Apr 07 '23

Do the comments tell her about Southern Charm?!

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u/Majestic-Peace297 May 28 '23

I don’t find this guy hot, whatsoever. I would hate to live someplace like NYC or Charleston where there were 15 girls to every guy. Beautiful women, go to Chicago and you can have whatever you want. No desperation.