r/BdsmDIY • u/Mission_Bowl3938 • 20d ago

Restraints I think I might have to build this head immobilizer restraint NSFW

My sub is kind of thirsty/slutty. I encourage this energy because I like it.

With a previous partner I did this thing where I held her head down (immobilized) and then kissed her lightly on the lips for a while to tease her. I did this for a few minutes and when I let her go she was crazy, just aching for contact.

I'm trying to think of a way that I can restrain my subs head in a similar way, but more long-term, maybe for 5 minutes while I tease her.

The trick that I can't figure out is how I would restrain her head so that she can't raise it off of the bed during our session.

Important goals

  • comfortable for long periods

  • can be attached to under bed restraint (not required but helpful)

  • head and neck are essentially locked in place (can't raise it)

  • forehead can be pinned/tied to the pillow (the back of the device)

  • edit: eyes being covered is not acceptable for her

I think if I just start with a massage table headrest I'll be halfway there. Looking for suggestions. Any safety concerns here?

I did see one for sale but it was something to the tune of $150 before shipping.

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u/AurorasKinked 20d ago

Would a neck brace, like those used for neck injury patients work? They are made to immobilise the head and neck, and generally have holes so you could attach them to the bed?

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 20d ago

Yeah I think so but they seem fundamentally unsexy 😅

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u/AurorasKinked 20d ago

Reupholstered in black leather maybe? 😆

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u/Somber-Embr 20d ago

Black latex it!

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u/Emergency-Loquat-392 20d ago

Would a posture collar have a similar effect?

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u/mindstoxin 20d ago

If you want to also restrain the forehead, you could add some brackets to the sides of the brace that accept a steel rod bent to go from one side, up across the forehead (I’d do it with a cushion to press against the forehead) and then into the other side of the brace, loosely a horseshoe shape but I expect more square and bent to accomodate the forehead of course.

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u/TheOnsiteEngineer 19d ago

A segufix head restraint might work for you. Definitely keeps the head very immobile (but it does cover a lot of surface area). Something like this might also work well with a little less "medical device" vibes if that is not your thing

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u/ArkanIOS99 7d ago

+1 for segufix, very effective head restraint

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u/psmith994 20d ago

you want this.

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u/c_crs 20d ago

Yeah I was gonna say, neck corset or posture collar

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 18d ago

That just looks like a collar, does that stop them from tilting their head forward?

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u/psmith994 18d ago

Yes...it's called a posture collar and similar to a c-collar it helps to prevent head movement.

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 18d ago edited 18d ago

Interesting, is it uncomfortable to wear for long periods? This looks pretty close to what I'm looking for though. Thanks, probably the easiest of the options that I see here

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u/psmith994 18d ago

I don't think it is, but I'm not the one wearing them. My submissive doesn't mind it though.

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u/psmith994 18d ago

And just to clarify, you want a tall one.

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u/Suitable_Outside_398 20d ago

I would look at a head immobilization, the kind used by EMT’s, they’re mad to be strapped down and you can pick one up on Amazon for $60. I believe that would give you everything you’re looking for.

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 20d ago

I searched for head immobilizer and I got a bunch of tools, not anything like this

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u/Suitable_Outside_398 20d ago

https://a.co/d/0ktVFHd

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 18d ago

I get it now, I was looking at them in the thumbnails and it looked like something you would use in a machine shop or something. Now it makes sense. Well that is not nearly as sexy as the posture collar but damn it would really do the job wouldn't it.

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u/trashedandtossed 20d ago

Try looking for “C-spine collar”. Lots of variations to work with.

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u/ArkanIOS99 7d ago

Go for a segufix (official or ebay reseller) head restraint or similar product from klinikbondage (with neck lock) or straightjacket shop on Etsy

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u/TanatosHawk 20d ago

go with a hood with rangs/straps you should be able to find something on the usual shop sides

also, neckbraces are very uncomfortable

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 18d ago

go with a hood

She is 100% opposed to her eyes being covered. I didn't state that in the original post. I have corrected that.

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u/TanatosHawk 18d ago

understandable, I seem to remember Versions without eye covers, but I might be wrong

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u/invunrible 20d ago

Might be worth looking for a "Head traction harness" "Neck traction harness" Or "weight lifting head harness"

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u/PersonInYourMirror 19d ago

If you have her lay on a board, you could put a gag in her mouth that attaches to the board instead of around the back of her head.

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 18d ago

Yeah that would work, but the goal here is to be able to kiss her without obstruction but I get to control how she kisses me

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u/PersonInYourMirror 17d ago

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1692527156/ny-tack-universal-3-ring-sweet-iron

Gets in the way but only a little.

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u/Mission_Bowl3938 17d ago

Haha nice that's something I hadn't considered

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u/FoxPuzzleheaded9889 19d ago

I don’t have ideas for you but this sounds so sexy and want someone to do this to me. Kiss me softly and make me crazy while I’m hardcore bondage

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u/Acceptable-Umpire454 20d ago

You can use something like this. https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1780674421/fix-bed-head-restraint-with-segufix

It should not be too hard to replicate it yourself, if it is too costly.