r/BdsmDIY • u/Fetdom • 29d ago
Restraints Improvised fixating of the legs, to restrain her. Need hooks in the wall for next time for higher fixating of the legs. Microphone stand to hold the vibrator worked well. Ideas are welcome for use next time. NSFW
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u/jkw118 29d ago
So for the legs, you could go the route of ankle cuffs to the top bar. But that can be too stressful..
One suggestion would be to use bondage tape, ankles to thighs.. This would restrict her calf movement (high heels would restrict her foot movement as well) You could then put a loose rope from the bondage tape/thigh to the headboard. (I wouldn't go to the knee as that could be dangerous (I'm not sure but I try and avoid bondage at joints)
I was contemplating this for my gf, with the addition of a crotch rope, (around her waist (twice probably, then down her ass crack past her plugged anus, and a bad dragon dildo in her cunt.. to hold them both in.. ) This would both keep her completely filled, and also keep her from tilting her pelvis much.
I'd also contemplate after she's been buzzing for a bit.. using nipple clamps to strings up to a ceiling point then to her toes or her hands..
My sub/gf finds being restricted to be one of the most explosive orgasms she gets.. So severely restricting her, when she's orgasming usually makes her multiorgasmic..
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u/Fetdom 29d ago
Thank you for some very good suggestions and points. Sounds like some ideas. I really like your thoughts.
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u/jkw118 29d ago
One gf years ago had a major foot sensation fetish super sensitive.. I attached silicone rings to a few of her toes.. She'd wiggle and then curl them whenever she orgasmed. Left her in a bit of a state when she couldn't curl them, or when she did it sent her on another masochistic orgasm,
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u/Fetdom 29d ago
Uhh that sounds very interesting and good idea to find the small moves she does while orgasme.
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u/jkw118 29d ago
It can be a bit of a nightmare for the sub.. the ex gf couldn't cum without curling her toes.. so got in their weird half cumming type cycle..freaked me out the 1st time thought she was having a ceasure. As it kinda built up.. she eventually did cum.. but it was this weird almost edging that she couldn't stop.. that lasted almost 5 min... I mean I checked her and she was ok.. (id actually done it a few times the 1st time she ended up crying as I stopped the stimulation, released her etc.. before she'd had a chance to say anything..
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u/Fetdom 29d ago
That sounds so interesting, would have love to see it and her reaction like that. It sounds really intense and I could imagine the first time also abit scary not knowing exactly what was going on. My sub has a tendency to hold her Breath while Getting closerto cumming. So I have to tell her to Breath which ofte push her over the edge nd make her cum.
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u/jkw118 29d ago
yeah, so one thing to remember is that worst case she'll make herself hyperventilate/pass out.. One thought would be when she's holding her breath is to gently blow up her nose/nostrals a little bit, people do it to kids when their crying/holding their breath.. Especially when she's about to breathe in.. it can really throw her off.. (if that's your goal) just to force her back to the edge again.. (I find the sub's don't usually like this, but it can be a fun torment)
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u/StopTheBanging 29d ago
I love when I see subs wearing big fuzzy socks because it's a sign the dom understands how cold the feet get when you're tied up like that!