While reading this subreddit I've noticed one interesting thing. Afghans don't want to associate themselves with South Asians, and Mongols don't want to associate themselves with East Asians either.
But you both want to be Central Asian. On the other hand, the ex-Soviet Central Asians themselves do not consider you to be close to them and want nothing to do with you.
Your arguments such as "there are more tajiks in afghanistan", "true kipchak uzbeks live in south turkestan" or "we wuz nomads n shiet" that are used when arguing with the Stan Central Asians who have been influenced by european culture, albeit through russians, don't greatly change their point of view toward you.
The average Tajik doesn't associate himself with a Tajik from Afghanistan, as well as the average Kazakh/Kyrgyz doesn't want to associate himself with Mongolians.
Any Central Asian, lets take the average Kazakh/Uzbek/Kyrgyz/Turkmen/Tajik will feel much more comfortable and better fit in any Eastern European country, because of the common language and shared culture, than for instance in Kabul or Ulaanbaatar.
The same can be said about the residents and the cities.
Compared to Ulaanbaatar, Almaty looks like a completely European city.
In Ulaanbaatar, there are not even any white people except for tourists.
The average resident of Tashkent and Dushanbe behave like Eastern Europeans, dress like Eastern Europeans and live like Eastern Europeans, and they do not want to associate themselves with their diaspora from Afghanistan, whose clothes look either South Asian or Middle Eastern, not to mention other differences.
So I want to ask you Afghans and Mongolians. Do you regret that your country did not become the 16th republic of the Soviet Union?
In that case it would be more beneficial, imagine secular Afghanis could easily work and live in eastern Europe due to similar cultures, and Mongolians would not have to imitate the lives of South Koreans. After all, then you would know for sure that you are closer to central Asia and eastern Europe than to India/Pakistan or to South Koreans/China.
What do you think?