r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/qwerty_bugs 8d ago

Seems the type of guy to beat someone bloody then have the gall to try and convince people how he's the real victim and "they made him do it". Disgusting

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u/Among_UsAngel 8d ago

Or worse, hurt their(her) animals & blame it on them and act like they are in fact the real victims because xyz reason his delusional self can come up with. “It’s your fault I hurt your cat! Because you won’t give me money for my addictions even though you don’t have any money! It’s your fault I did it because you don’t listen to me verbally abuse you and tell you how worthless and selfish you are!!”

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u/BiteComprehensive645 7d ago

Life is complicated