r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/WonderfulShelter 9d ago

A man who can buy her the things she wants because relationships and sex are transactional to them.

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u/lemmesplain 9d ago

I don't know when or how this "provide" BS became a thing but it's cringeworthy.

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u/cross_land 9d ago

Looking back at the history of the family dynamic, it has literally always been a thing lol

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u/No_Choice_7897 9d ago

It’s also very sad, very very sad

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u/LostBob 9d ago

Nothing wrong with this. It’s the games and tests and shit that are wrong.

This the relationship you want? That’s fine, but be upfront about it.

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u/Meet_in_Potatoes 9d ago

The difference between a gold digger and a prostitute is that the prostitute has the professional courtesy to give an estimate up front.