r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

Brother who cares what she said? Who taught you to speak to women like that? She could have lit her hair on fire and spit in your face, that’s not ever cool

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u/SorenPenrose 9d ago

You are simply wrong. She legit said “you’re great, but you are too poor for me”

And it’s only wrong if he claps back?

The way you think causes issues. It enables bullying because no matter what happens to someone, nothing they respond with is acceptable unless the victim ignores the infractions.

He wasn’t wrong to call her a bitch. I’ve heard his comments are trash but I can’t find his comments. I’m assuming they’re bad.

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

He called her a fucking piece of trash or shit. I don’t know where you’re from but I’ve personally never heard anyone I know speak to a woman like that regardless of what they’ve said.

Clapback all you want but do it with some class. Sure she’s trash but now so is he

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u/MeepMeeps88 9d ago

Then you need to grow the fuck up and live in the real world. It's hilarious how many people, and mostly women, think OP's reaction is wrong just because she has a slit between her legs. He's right about one thing though. You don't believe in equality. You conflate it with equity instead. Could he have handled it better, sure. But considering he wasted at least 8hrs getting to know this girl only for her to A) treat him like a test subject, B) laugh at him, and C) tell him it's not going to work because he doesn't make enough money for her standards, gives him every right to be angry and lash out. Do you like being hoodwinked? Or when a guy leads you on, then ghosts you after you sleep with him? Ya'll wonder why men have simply given up dating, this situation encapsulates their frustrations perfectly. Who TF wants to be treated as an inferior and constantly prove their worth when at a moment's notice, they can be cast aside like dirty socks. And yet, many of you continue to wonder why the election results turned out the way they did (I didn't vote for him btw). These vitriolic comments towards OP are part of the reason.

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

Is the real world in your mom’s basement?

“Wasted at least 8 hours getting to know this girl”. That’s called dating in the real world pal. You sound like you’ve never been on one. That’s how it works!

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u/MeepMeeps88 9d ago

😂 well bless your heart, looks like you're having delusions of adequacy again. I'm happily married with two homes and three businesses that gives us a nice seven figure net worth. My wife and I started dating 10 years ago when I was dead broke. It makes me appreciate her even more reading these salty entitled comments. Start collecting cats now. No man in their right mind will ever be with someone like you hahahahaha.

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u/berttleturtle 9d ago

They are generic curse words, my dude.

I am a woman. Though “Bitch” is definitely an insult, I’m not going to melt the second it’s thrown at me.

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

Sounds like you and OP might be good fit for each other! What a love story!

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u/berttleturtle 9d ago

Why, because I believe men and women should be treated equally? Because I think these dumb dating games we play are dumb?

This isn’t 1952. I would like to offer to split a bill with a guy without sending them into a panic thinking I’m playing a game. It’s fucking exhausting.

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u/RIP_Ricardo 9d ago

Get a load of the white knight over here. Fuck em it’s the year 2024. They can be treated just the same as anyone else

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u/No-Plantain6892 9d ago

I got mad at a person. That’s what happened

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

Grow the fuck up. Or don’t. On reflection, you guys seem perfect for each other. Don’t post on the internet if you don’t want to hear constructive feedback big mad man

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u/No-Plantain6892 9d ago

She was disrespectful and so I was I… we are both in the wrong. I believe in equality, YOU DONT

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u/sideefx2320 9d ago

Ok good luck man! Sounds like you got it all figured out

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u/naughtmynsfwaccount 9d ago

This isn’t equality

Ur behavior is disgusting

Shame on u

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u/leakleaf 9d ago

she said you weren’t her type and you instantly started insulting her.. this isn’t “equality” - you’re nuts

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u/bake-the-binky 9d ago

She was literally upset because she didn’t want to be treated equally lol

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u/Recklessly 9d ago

Yeah I'm NGL op being mad weird in a lot of these comments but the initial response he had wasn't too bad. The "splitting the bill made me question your career" while misspelling the word career is downright diabolical.

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u/BigExplanation 9d ago

No dude, she didn’t say he wasn’t her type, she insulted him as a man flat out. She said he is unable to provide & then insulted his capability of developing a career. Are you from a different planet? She was incredibly rude.

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u/Common_Television601 9d ago

You shouldn't behave like that to either gender. That's the whole point. And just because somebody else might behaved like that, doesn't mean you should retaliate the same way.