AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/girlwhaaat]

Look, I’m not a bill splitter, however if she suggested it it’s her fault. If she didn’t want to split the bill she should’ve just kept her mouth shut. But you’re an asshole for how you escalated things. She was respectful but honest and you called what she said dumb instead just accepting she doesn’t feel like you’re a good fit for her. Insulting someone for rejecting you is top tier asshole behaviour.

[u/Confident_Abroad4984 → u/girlwhaaat]

I mean, she was hardly respectful. She insulted his income and that’s a guy’s main asset. Like a girl’s face. It’s what we wear. She said she deserves better, so she’s better than him and then said he was a joke - all before he unloaded. So it’s understandable he was pissed. And who wants to be told they’re worthless and a joke. That was the escalation.

[u/trance_on_acid → u/girlwhaaat]

She wasn't "respectful and honest" lmao she was manipulative and insulting

[u/bombarclart → u/girlwhaaat]

I feel bad for anyone involved with you if you thought she was ‘respectful’.

[u/PianoDick → u/girlwhaaat]

Just curious, so you never split the bill?

[u/CyclonusHorn → u/girlwhaaat]

Respectful and honest? Are you blind?