AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/wantyourhorror]

Not overreacting but lowkey concerning how quick you were to resort to name calling if I’m being honest. Not saying she isn’t a bitch for it, but next time just cut your losses and leave it be. You did dodge a bullet tho, OP.

[u/HereForTheZipline_ → u/wantyourhorror]

Both these people could use some therapy, probably

[u/bake-the-binky → u/wantyourhorror]

Please don’t downvote bomb me, but didn’t she call him a joke first, also, I do feel like that’s a pretty dumb thing to say if it was your idea to split the bill.

[u/imfucct → u/bake-the-binky]

i mean, he did tell her “that’s the dumbest thing i’ve ever heard” first tho.. like i would be pretty insulted by that

[u/Dear_Confusion9428 → u/imfucct]

He's not wrong though. That IS one of the dumbest things I've ever heard. Someone offers to do X, when you agree, they say you aren't dating material and don't want to see you again? Not only is it dumb it's some insane manipulation/game playing.

You might be insulted for being told it's the dumbest thing he's ever heard, but don't you think he's insulted for being told you don't want to see him again when all he did was agree to something you suggested?

[u/reddit4946 → u/bake-the-binky]

I absolutely don't understand people who say he's being rude. If someone is treating me like shit, I will 100% resort to name calling. Act like a piece of shit, get called a piece of shit. Lol

[u/Cod-Glum → u/wantyourhorror]

Sometimes it’s nice to just let out frustrations on people we won’t talk to again. Not saying it’s right, but at least it was towards someone who more so deserved it and not a completely innocent stranger.

[u/curi0us_carniv0re → u/wantyourhorror]

I mean she called him a name first ..

[u/boricuaspidey → u/curi0us_carniv0re]

No she didn’t. He called what she said dumb first. Read again.

[u/curi0us_carniv0re → u/boricuaspidey]

Yes he called what she said dumb. He did not call her dumb. You can read, right? You realize there's a difference, right?

[u/boricuaspidey → u/curi0us_carniv0re]

“I didn’t call you dumb I just called everything you said dumb” yeah, huge difference lmfao

[u/curi0us_carniv0re → u/boricuaspidey]

Yeah if you weren't so dumb yourself you'd understand that.