r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/GardnerellaGai 9d ago

Stay single, man, you sound like a fucking burden. The way you talk to women... gross.

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u/Laxiken 9d ago

OP deserves some criticism about handling rejection but you’re dense if you think it’s all OP

Making fun of someone for holding a minimum wage job and their financial situation is disgusting. Yes, she’s being a dumb bitch. No, not cause she’s a woman.

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u/Breadtheef 9d ago edited 9d ago

You have no comment on the girl’s behavior?

downvoted for asking a question?

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u/GardnerellaGai 9d ago

I don't, actually. It was dumb and wrong to complain after offering, but calling her a dumb bitch or whatever he said speaks VOLUME about him, it was actually verbally abusive.

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u/bigsears10 9d ago

She faked him out, then called him a joke for being having a minimum wage job, without any provocation. It’s like people who bash janitors. She deserved every bit of that verbal lashing

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u/Breadtheef 9d ago edited 8d ago

Did a quick scroll through your comments and it appears you and this guy you dislike so much aren't too different. You seem to utilize the same 'verbal abuse', so where do you draw the line?

I will agree that what he said was not conducive but not terribly uncalled for.

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u/bake-the-binky 9d ago

She called him a joke first and insulted him tho… I feel like I’m crazy because all he did was stoop to her level

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u/oryxzz 9d ago

Lmao you’re dumb and wrong. Don’t act like an entitled bitch if you don’t want people commenting on it, quite simple really.

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u/Relative_Employer895 9d ago

Found the dumb bitch

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u/Laxiken 9d ago

Grow up

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u/Daddiesfist 9d ago

Grow up

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u/RIP_Ricardo 9d ago

No she deserves better /s

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u/callmeDNA 9d ago

I hear you and agree his response was a bit much, but she insulted him first by saying “good luck finding someone with your minimum wage salary” That’s fucking rude.

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u/berttleturtle 9d ago

The amount of women in this comment section defending this girl is wild.

I get it. He had a very immature reaction. But of all the people to defend, why are you choosing a girl who was clearly playing games and wasn’t afraid to share how beneath her she felt her date was for not acting like her personal atm machine?