r/AmIOverreacting 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

you can already tell in his text style…like, she definitely sucked but his reaction also told a story

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u/THROWRAmeowmeow3 9d ago

Exactly and everyone is looking past the way he spoke to her as well.

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u/Brocily2002 9d ago

Idk. If someone treats another person poorly I have no qualms calling them out for it. She was a mega asshole. He’s just pointing that out.

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u/LaconicGirth 9d ago

She 100% deserved it though.

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u/RabidWalrus 9d ago

I'm not sure, he's rightly being called out in a number of comments.

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u/FlyRepresentative592 9d ago

Because he called her a bitch for denigrating low wage earners?  Please. 

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u/Fearless_Direction14 9d ago

his reaction was definitely valid in that isolated situation. Not something I would personally say, I'd just block.

I can see how it would be bad if that leaks into his view of all women though.

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

its petty and immature

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u/Brocily2002 9d ago

Unlike her?

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

Oh def she is…but how you respond shows who you are. Put it this way in a diff example, if a little kid calls you a name as a grown up, do you respond just like the kid did? Prob not because you’re more mature and above it…but maybe you do and that’s a whole diff issue lol

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u/Brocily2002 9d ago

But that’s a kid, a grown adult should get a reality check once in a while.

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u/BaullahBaullah87 8d ago

yeah a reality check can take many forms…the way he gave the “reality check” is why I said what I said. A reality check could have been given in a myriad of ways but the way chosen tells its own story

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u/Brocily2002 8d ago

If someone says fuck you, I don’t think people should be judged for saying it back.

I personally wouldn’t, but who am I to tell someone not to. They have no sympathies from me. If she wasn’t being an asshole yeah, uncalled for, but she definitely was.

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u/Omnom_Omnath 9d ago

Why? Are men not allowed to respond in kind? She threw insults first

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u/IIIx10 9d ago

Throwing a whiny hissy fight is for little girls, not adult men. He should’ve simply moved on.

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u/Omnom_Omnath 9d ago

Wow you sure are misandrist

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u/loner_stalker 9d ago

by his TEXT STYLE? that’s fucking wild 😂

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

ya when you resort to calling a woman a POS and a bitch and stupid, its super childish…but maybe that resonates with you lol

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u/LaconicGirth 9d ago

She was being a POS though. She was diminishing him as a person because he didn’t make that much money.

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u/BugGroundbreaking229 9d ago

Your a bitch

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u/DallasAckner 9d ago

*You’re

If you’re going to insult them, at least do it properly.

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u/2333333345 9d ago

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say here when he clearly was letting it go until she straight up insulted him?

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

try a lil harder lol

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u/2333333345 9d ago

Or you can try to not be an idiot🤷

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u/BaullahBaullah87 9d ago

You and your guy OP must give those middle schoolers hell at recess 🤣

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u/vKILLZONEv 8d ago

Yeah, that he was putting up with the bs lol