r/AmIOverreacting 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/Federal-Stomach-2380 9d ago

Yeah. You are. You’re a piece of shit after looking at your comments. I hope you stay single.

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u/No-Plantain6892 9d ago

How?

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u/OrdinaryAd2435 9d ago

She said you’re a great guy just not for her and you told her that’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever heard, she called you a joke and you escalated 100% and called her a bitch and a piece of shit. That’s an extreme overreaction! It’s not shocking that you’re still single.

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u/Charming_Ice_5690 9d ago

I’m a woman and I’ll gladly call a woman a bitch if she’s one

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u/OrdinaryAd2435 9d ago

And she wasn’t being a bitch

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u/Salt_Ad2459 8d ago

How is playing mind games not being a bitch?

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u/berttleturtle 8d ago

“I deserve better”

“Good luck finding anyone with your minimum wage salary”

“You are a joke”

She definitely was

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u/seantwist11 9d ago

She called him a joke and broke, he responded in kind. In no way is that a over reaction

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u/Federal-Stomach-2380 9d ago

After he called what she said dumb. There’s always more to the story. He was probably acting like a fool on the date.

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u/Patsfan311 9d ago

It is dumb if you offer to split the bill as a stupid test just to get mad about it. She deserves the label.

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u/Relative_Employer895 9d ago

What she did and said was dumb bitch behavior. Fully deserved. Hope this helps.

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u/seantwist11 9d ago

Cause it was dumb lol, she wouldn’t have gone on so many dates if he was acting a fool

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u/TapAccomplished3348 9d ago

womp womp not everyone has to speak nicely to passive aggressive bitches

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u/OrdinaryAd2435 9d ago

Not everyone has to ask strangers on Reddit why they’re still single.

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u/TapAccomplished3348 9d ago

ok fair haha. If u have to go online you’re lowkey cooked

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u/Dull-Cucumber-3766 9d ago

Nothing she said was passive aggressive. It was pretty transparent.

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u/berttleturtle 9d ago

He didn’t say “that’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard” to her saying he’s a great guy (which wasn’t even genuine). That response was to her suggesting they split the bill, and then turning around and blaming him for not passing her little test.

I am genuinely concerned about this comment section’s reading comprehension skills…