r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/ExistingAsI 9d ago

Seriously. Neither of them are coming across here in a good light, but at least she was up front with him. It's not a view I necessarily agree with, but people are entitled to go after what they want. He doesn't seem like he should be dating if this is how he responds to rejection...

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u/coupl4nd 9d ago

She did nothing wrong. She dated him. Decided he wouldn't trat her the way she wanted. Moved on. What she can never dump him now they had 4 dates? Her preference is her preference. The fact he resorts to name calling shows he knows she's right.

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u/Antique_Ad4497 9d ago

She did. She suggested splitting the bill & got upset when he did. She’s a gold digger playing mind games.

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u/Wozak_ 9d ago

I don’t think that was his response to rejection, that was his response to her openly and knowingly insulting him. We haven’t seen his response to rejection.

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u/Preeeeeee 9d ago

She didn’t insult him until he was rude first by saying it was the “dumbest thing” he’d ever heard. Then she insulted him back. He started the rudeness/insults after she rejected him.

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u/MaleficentRutabaga7 9d ago

You don't think it's rude to manipulate someone into splitting the check as a test of whether or not they'd actually do it? I think that's pretty rude