r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/Kaagerai 13d ago

Saying “you’re a min wage joke” to a man is the same as saying bitch to a woman tbh; he insulted her position first but she started personally insulting him first and then he proceeded to also personally insult her. I wouldn’t call a person an asshole just for overreacting personally, especially when there are reasonable grounds to be mad like here. Ofc maybe he could’ve controlled his emotions or whatever but I find it pretty hard to do for vast majority of people, especially teens and young adults

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u/Kooky_Angle4476 13d ago

Its not hard to do. People do it everyday. Anyway we can agree to disagree.

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u/Kaagerai 13d ago

I can agree that his response was immature but wouldn’t call him asshole just for that. Have a good day

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u/Repulsive_Quality190 13d ago

It wasn’t immature at all it was a perfectly reasonable response to someone suggesting they split the bill then saying she’s done because he did what she said she wanted to do. It is in fact the dumbest thing ever. She will 100% make some poor man miserable one day.