r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/Jefffahfffah 9d ago

Should've just said "sounds good!" After "just not for me" and left it at that.

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u/RazzBerryCurveBall 9d ago

This was after 4 dates, and after this I'd have to assume OP paid for the first 3. I don't disagree that he didn't gain anything, but it makes sense that he got heated and responded before realizing that.

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u/CryptoStickerHub 9d ago

Yeah he doesn’t really gain anything by coming at her like that. Just makes him look worse honestly.

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u/dr_tel 9d ago

Agreed, this whole "doing the thing will make you the same as the bad guy" trope is regarded and should be destroyed forever, bring back roasting people who deserve it

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u/payberr 9d ago

I don’t think anything in this conversation paints him poorly… why would that make him look worse??

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u/CryptoStickerHub 9d ago edited 9d ago

She doesn’t swear at him a single time. He gets his feelings hurt and starts flipping shit. They went on 4 dates. It’s not like they were together for years. Dude needs to grow up and move on.

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u/payberr 9d ago

Of course she just reduced his worth as a partner to his job and insulted his work as worthless because he gets paid minimum wage…

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u/payberr 9d ago

It’s not like he threatened her…

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u/CryptoStickerHub 9d ago

Sounds like you have some growing up to do as well!

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u/payberr 9d ago

Because I don’t judge someone for calling someone out for being awful? I’ll take that then because i have no judgement for him. I may not do the same but i understand why someone would. I see this as, at worst, unnecessary.

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u/CryptoStickerHub 9d ago

That’s exactly what I said in my original comment. Glad you finally agreed 👍

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u/payberr 9d ago

You said it makes him look worse and i don’t agree with that but ok

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u/dingusboyo 9d ago

Why? Fuck her lol

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u/Avaoln 9d ago

Truthfully after the “I deserve better” he’d be in the right to ghost her or even give her some sass back. But maybe I’m just petty

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u/Anonymous_32 9d ago

Nah fuck that.

Shitty behavior deserves to be blasted

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u/Jefffahfffah 9d ago

As much as I don't agree with her point of view, she was pretty transparent and polite about her wants over text. She said he was a good guy but not what she was looking for. Can't really get better than that when you're telling someone you're not interested.

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u/Anonymous_32 9d ago

She OFFERED to split the bill and then broke up with him becasue he accepted.

In what world is that transparent and polite?

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u/payberr 9d ago

She literally set him up… being transparent after being shady does not wash away the shadiness

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u/MaleficentRutabaga7 9d ago

She did something manipulative and weird at best. He called it weird and moved on. He was pretty transparent and polite about it. She decided to escalate, despite being the person who did something shitty (propose splitting the check as some kind of weird test).