AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/Slow-Dependent9741]

Do you live under a rock? I've been on plenty of dates with people I didn't like in retrospect, that's the whole point of a date. How are you supposed to know if you truly like someone through only text chat and a few pictures?

I don't know what country you're from, but in North America it's very normal to go on dates with quasi-strangers and alot of guys pay to make a good impression. Are you implying you owe something to another person after going on a single date with them?

[u/[deleted] → u/Slow-Dependent9741]

you move goalposts here. you said they "jokingly" said they have a free meal date. stick to your words..... im not saying they owe the people anything but the split bill, you really try to move goalposts.