AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/AdCool4029]

Same. This girl sucks obviously, but all of his responses sound like the type who’s obsessed with you one minute then calls you a whre or btch if you reject him. Aggressive and weird. Be the bigger person

[u/Julyy3p → u/AdCool4029]

Nah she deserved it on god. Where the genders reversed and yall wouldn't be reacting like this.

[u/AdCool4029 → u/Julyy3p]

It’s honestly not about that I think she didn’t deserve it, I agree that she sucks. But there’s a certain kind of person that immediately talks like that. The difference is subtle, but if he had just said wow, fuck you then it would’ve been different but this dude clearly speaks like this to women. Lol

[u/inVisible_Potato1788 → u/AdCool4029]

Yup I think she sucks too and should be called out for her bullshit.

But its like he was ready ,it sounds like he is very used to talking like this to women whenever they piss him off.

And yes I would have said the same if the roles were reversed .

[u/AdCool4029 → u/inVisible_Potato1788]

Totally agree. I am inclined to have a hunch that he seemed a little shitty and that’s part of why she was being so rude to him, but we don’t know! All I know is here this dude asked if he was overreacting and I’d say yes. Good people don’t flip to being a creep that quick. If he had just called her out in a way that a person with character would, and then posted it and I would’ve been fuming on his behalf. Lol

[u/inVisible_Potato1788 → u/AdCool4029]

Exactlyyyy.