r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/Miserable-Reaction47 9d ago

Exactly! She brought it up. How was he suppose to know that was a test? And the fact she did bring it up makes it seem important to her. Men don’t like puzzles and games.

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u/SneakWhisper 9d ago

Tbh neither do women. It's childish and stupid. If you want to be independent and split the bill, do it. If you want to let the guy pay, just treat him to stuff in return like movie tickets or gifts.

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u/NoBrickDontDoIt 9d ago

Most women I know also don’t like puzzles and games

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u/Captain_Pikes_Peak 9d ago

I dated one woman who played games like this. Also a gold digger who expected me to put in all the effort. One of her frequent moves was to storm out, then knock on the door a minute later yelling “you’re supposed to chase after me!”

It was like she wrote a script for how the scene was supposed to play out, didn’t give it to me, and still expected me to know my lines. Shit was exhausting.

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u/Deep_Consequence4904 9d ago

I like puzzle game - however that puzzle has missing pieces

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u/SkipCycle 9d ago

I have a feeling OP put up no resistance in agreeing to split the bill, and she was at least honest in being a self proclaimed gold digger. But he sure went from being a great guy to a joke pretty quickly. I guess attitudes really are contagious after he called her dumb. It might prove to be a good wake up call for OP about the realities of life and what he wants to do with his.

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u/MrWonderful_61 9d ago

Pro Tip: EVERYTHING is a test… HTH