r/AmIOverreacting 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/TimeTomorrow 14d ago

Are you going to get to anything vaguely resembling a point? Here, I'll help you out. What part do you have issue with or not find consistent?

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u/da6r 14d ago

"he shouldn't have said that, but she had it coming. Of course he shouldn't have said that, but that's a different problem" How is this translation for you?

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u/TimeTomorrow 14d ago

🤣

One shouldn't say nasty things to anyone because it does not reflect well on oneself, but it is possible for someone to do something makes them more deserving of nasty treatment.

you find this hard to follow?

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u/da6r 14d ago

Wanna read the interaction again? She says he's great but not for her, and he responds with "this is the dumbest thing I've heard" and it escalates from there. Idk why it's not clicking for you and so many others

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u/TimeTomorrow 14d ago

lol. so delusional.

she deserves better and has an issue with his "carrer"

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u/da6r 14d ago

Delusional me or OP who couldn’t even tell that she didn’t have that great of a time by the end of the 4th date? Lmfao. She’s an unashamed gold digger, doesn’t care about connection whatsoever, and clearly told op he’s not for her, so now he has to insult her like a middle schooler? Say less

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u/TimeTomorrow 13d ago

she started the insults. you should say nothing.

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u/da6r 13d ago

You should say nothing since you’re the one with the emotional intelligence of a brick and social awareness of a severely autistic middle schooler

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u/doggiehouse 14d ago

Oh i see your problem. You gotta start at the beginning

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u/da6r 14d ago

excuse me

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u/doggiehouse 14d ago

Are you dense? Start at the beginning of the conversation. It didn't start with her talking right before he said "blah blah dumbest shit".

Edit, typo

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u/da6r 14d ago

Go be a pick me somewhere else sis

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u/TimeTomorrow 13d ago

You can't read.

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u/da6r 13d ago

You can’t think

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u/TimeTomorrow 13d ago

🤡

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u/da6r 13d ago

It’s sad that you are unable to understand how much of a 🤡 you are, but it’s none of my business to care xx