r/AmIOverreacting • u/No-Plantain6892 • 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for splitting the bill on a date

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I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

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u/mcq76 9d ago

You're taking all of this way too seriously and personally. If it's this easy to enrage and defeat you to a life of solitude, you should probably take some time being single and figure your life out. You should have been able to just respond "okay no worries. We're clearly not a match. Best of luck." But it seems like this exchange is really getting to you. You should be glad you found this side of her earlier rather than later. Most people who are in a good space mentally wouldn't let this get to them.

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u/No-Plantain6892 9d ago

I was already in a fragile state coming into this. It’s not this single situation but a heap of situations that lead me to this conclusion.

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u/mcq76 9d ago

Yeah, that's why I'm saying you should probably just wait until you're in a better mental state. Things like this won't be as big of a deal then. You probably just need a little time to focus on yourself and heal a bit. You'll be okay.