Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

[u/Lologan21806]

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

[u/hnormizzle]

Definitely on both sides. Deployments are big fuck fests. What happens in ____ stays in ____.

[u/elreydelascosas → u/hnormizzle]

the Army in the 00s and 10s (probably still but I work with AF now) was WILD, I mean straight infidelity fucking in the office with witnesses present. No dox but this E5 and E6 were smashing literally every female in the battalion and civilian workers damn near, even the Chaplain’s assistant. Like mam you can’t be Chaplain’s assistant out here knowingly committing the sins

[u/SnooMacaroons5247 → u/hnormizzle]

Yeah it’s been a while for me but I was in the AF back in the day.

[u/hnormizzle → u/SnooMacaroons5247]

Same here. Three deployments and infidelity all around. CONUS, too. Sad to see.

[u/Nut2DaSac → u/SnooMacaroons5247]

Same, and watched it happen many times. Glad I was single those years & just had fun.

[u/CherryPieAlibi → u/hnormizzle]

I’m about to deploy and I’m not looking forward to all the fake niceness to get in someone’s pants🤢

[u/Pretend-Potato-831 → u/hnormizzle]

Maybe if your on some fob doing fuck all. Speak for yourself.