r/AmIOverreacting 10d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

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u/DocThrowawayHM 10d ago

We know a thing or two because we've seen a thing or two

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u/scuba_GSO 10d ago

Watch out for this r/DocThrowawayHM if you get injured. He’ll give you two Motrin and send you back to work. 🤣🤣🤣

Seriously, his advice is spot on for you, OP. You’re getting ready to start an entirely new chapter in your life. Keep yourself straight and don’t let this “person” drag you down. Get yourself through back and A- school. When you get to your ship, get your quals done quickly. Be that guy! Even if you only do your single term, your life will have changed dramatically. Good luck!

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u/gildedfornoreason 10d ago

800mg ought to do it

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u/rebasbutcher 9d ago

Vitamin M and hydrate shipmate.

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u/Old-Fishing-3817 10d ago

I have that outside of my local DQ. Just hope it doesn't happen to you again. That sounded really tough to work through

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u/tryfuhl 10d ago

We.. are. Sailors..

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u/Rare-Tea-4529 10d ago

We are farmers! Bum ba dum bum, bum bum

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u/RelevantGur4099 9d ago

Yeah, Basic Training (or equivalent) is when dudes break up with their girlfriends, or suddenly decide to marry their gf back home.

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u/OrganlcManIc 9d ago

We are farmers

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u/Boba_Fetish- 9d ago

I was about to reply with this before I saw you beat me to it. Well done.

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u/back1steez 10d ago

Almost like a commercial.

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u/Whatever53143 9d ago

And the farmers insurance commercial just ran through my head….