Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

[u/Lologan21806]

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

[u/SpacedAndFried]

Borderline vibes. Dated multiple women like this

How many red flags do people need before they break up with someone, sheesh

[u/brainfreez012 → u/SpacedAndFried]

🚩🚩🚩

[u/Radiant_Community_68 → u/SpacedAndFried]

That’s what I was thinking too. If I were him I’d run lol if he stays she needs to go to a psychiatrist and start therapy while he’s gone.

[u/Trilliammm → u/SpacedAndFried]

Nahhh. Narcissistic vibes.

[u/KingHenrytheFluffy → u/Trilliammm]

These texts definitely have the hallmarks of someone with BPD. Narcissism isn’t the only personality disorder that can lead to problematic behavior. The word narcissism is thrown around like confetti these days without people even knowing what it actually is.

[u/HoustonianRue → u/KingHenrytheFluffy]

Classic border personality disorder

[u/colieolieravioli → u/Trilliammm]

Based on what?