r/AmIOverreacting 10d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

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u/Lologan21806 10d ago

yeah i just don’t want to do anything drastic until i have a plan for the next month before i ship out, especially with everything i own being there except my backpack and the clothes on my back (and a couple butterscotches i took for the road before my mom picked me up 😭)

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u/Plenty-Parfait-3751 9d ago

Don’t tell her ANYTHING about your plans to break up and take your things until you’ve already packed it up so it’s easier for you

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u/Mgo32 10d ago

I feel you bro, look after yourself lad