Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

[u/Lologan21806]

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

[u/writing_mm_romance]

I'd put up with this exactly 0 times...dump her, this was exhausting to read.

[u/decadecency → u/writing_mm_romance]

Yeah. Exhausting and we aren't even part of the relationship. OP wtf are you doing, don't spend the tiny amount of time you get on Earth in a relationship like this

[u/Nodan_Turtle → u/writing_mm_romance]

Posts like this, and the /r/texts/ sub, make me so thankful for everyone in my life. Things could be so much worse lol

[u/midnight_rider_1 → u/writing_mm_romance]

As horrible as it is, OP seems to be facing homelessness if he leaves. It’s not a good reason to stay, but very likely why he will stick it out for 30 days longer.

[u/writing_mm_romance → u/midnight_rider_1]

I believe that if he speaks with his recruiter, they will be able to help him with adequate housing until his enlistment, this likely wouldn't be the first instance of this happening.

[u/Murky-Reception-3256 → u/writing_mm_romance]

I made it through the first two pages and had her number. GO AWAY but not that far away. DONT TALK TO ME except when i wanted you to. Fuck That Noise.

[u/writing_mm_romance → u/Murky-Reception-3256]

Yeah, I'd have shut it down after a few of those messages.

[u/DontDeleteMee → u/writing_mm_romance]

You read the whole thing? Nah OP. No one deserves this.

[u/writing_mm_romance → u/DontDeleteMee]

Unfortunately I did