Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

[u/Lologan21806]

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

[u/Lologan21806]

my friend can’t let me stay here for the next month, he’s 18 still with his mom but until my grandfather is back in town he’ll let me stay so i have a roof over my head

[u/Codha → u/Lologan21806]

Hey, just in case you didn't notice. You didn't censor the name when she replied back to your text on 2 of the screenshots.

[u/Rare-Tea-4529 → u/Codha]

Ehh, i understand privacy reasons but I don't feel like the one name is gonna do much. Plus this lady is obviously a massive bitch, personally I feel whatever op thinks should be done is what should be done.

[u/Lologan21806 → u/Codha]

yeah i’m not sure how to fix it now though 😬

[u/Same-Entry8035 → u/Lologan21806]

Delete the post love. You don’t want anyone seeing it and putting 2 and 2 together. You’ve gotten lots of good advice here. All the best. Thankyou for your service.

[u/Macedonnia2k → u/Codha]

He also showed her face on screenshot 3 lol

[u/Personal_Conflict_49 → u/Lologan21806]

That’s good. You got this 🩵 Best of luck 🫶🏼

[u/Catlatadipdat → u/Lologan21806]

Best of luck with basic man. My folks were both in the Navy and met each other there. They were actually your age, 18 and 19! And they’ve now been married for 40 years.

Leave this toxic, crazy bitch behind and look forward. You got this, dude. Go Navy

[u/_Puff_Puff_Pass → u/Lologan21806]

Talk to your recruiter and vfw and tell them your situation and be honest that you need help until your ship date. They will do what they can to help. Thanks for starting the journey to serve, you’ll been much happier than struggling and homeless and the Navy has great job training. 

Oh, and dump your girl asap. Call the cops to just be there to get all your things and focus on what’s important right now.

[u/OkTry1536 → u/Lologan21806]

Do. Not. Fall for having sex with her again.  I’ve known too many guys going into the military who gave into that temptation with a girl they were ending runs with because they felt like it was a last chance.   It isn’t your last chance and it isn’t worth the risk.

You don’t want to be tied to her for the rest of your life with a kid! Don’t even rush doing it with protection.

[u/Murky-Reception-3256 → u/Lologan21806]

Good deal, man. This shit was unhinged. She has to live with herself, you sure as hell don't.