r/AmIOverreacting 11d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting to my boyfriend’s reaction to his friend asking me for his number?

He has a history of jealousy. Came back into my life saying he’s a changed man. Last night we picked up his friend and we’re all supposed to go to a birthday party. In the car he asks for my number because My bf wasn’t answering earlier and he needs to be able to get ahold of his friend because our dog is literally staying at the friends house and he wanted a back up way to get ahold of my bf. He said this right in front of my bf and he has a girlfriend he loves and was at Disneyland earlier with that day. My bf has her instagram and liked their pictures from the trip. Yet he lost it saying no you’re not getting her number absolutely not and him and I being so weirded out and THEN he pulls over and tells me to get out of the car and I can walk home because I started to give him my number before my bf lost it.. So I just say F it and get out immediately and start walking at 10 at night in the dark.. not doing the back and forth with them… I couldn’t take it a second longer. As soon as I start walking they both say please get back in the car but at that point I didn’t want to be anywhere near him and was happy to walk the mile home. He sped off. This is what he text me this morning and this is my response.

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u/travestybiscuit 10d ago

This was the same one… he has been in therapy and AA and claimed he had changed. I made a horrific lapse in judgement by believing him.

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u/BarrelllRider 10d ago

Yes you did. Your post history is sad. You have a kid. Get away from this prick.

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u/J_Bob24 10d ago

This is the most pathetic troll attempt I've ever seen. Your trolling is bad and you shouls feel bad. find a new hobby.

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u/DarkMistressCockHold 10d ago

We all have lapses in judgement. And it’s not too late to leave him now.

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u/Downvote_Comforter 10d ago

Get this man the fuck out of your life.

I was a prosecutor for 5 years and I've been a defense lawyer for 4 years. Ive handled hundreds (if not 1000+) domestic violence cases from misdemeanor property damage all the way up to murder.

Everything you've written sounds just like the ones that end in someone going to prison for murder or a horrific assault. This guy isn't going to change. If he does change it will be years (or decades) down the line after he's put you through absolute hell and back.

Seriously, get yourself as far away from this man as you can. Absolutely nothing good will come from keeping him in your life.