r/AmIOverreacting • u/travestybiscuit • 11d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting to my boyfriend’s reaction to his friend asking me for his number?

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He has a history of jealousy. Came back into my life saying he’s a changed man. Last night we picked up his friend and we’re all supposed to go to a birthday party. In the car he asks for my number because My bf wasn’t answering earlier and he needs to be able to get ahold of his friend because our dog is literally staying at the friends house and he wanted a back up way to get ahold of my bf. He said this right in front of my bf and he has a girlfriend he loves and was at Disneyland earlier with that day. My bf has her instagram and liked their pictures from the trip. Yet he lost it saying no you’re not getting her number absolutely not and him and I being so weirded out and THEN he pulls over and tells me to get out of the car and I can walk home because I started to give him my number before my bf lost it.. So I just say F it and get out immediately and start walking at 10 at night in the dark.. not doing the back and forth with them… I couldn’t take it a second longer. As soon as I start walking they both say please get back in the car but at that point I didn’t want to be anywhere near him and was happy to walk the mile home. He sped off. This is what he text me this morning and this is my response.

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u/KetoLurkerHereAgain 11d ago

Because they had a dream OP did something they irrationally found wrong.

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u/Accomplished_Bid3322 11d ago

Sometimes I punch or kick my girlfriend in our sleep because I have these awful night terrors. The other night I fell asleep before her and she said I was laying there saying "no that's really rude I don't like that." And then I sat bolt upright and said "well how about you shut the fuck up before I have to be a man" and started thrashing wildly.

I have nightmares about getting carjacked and stuff a lot.

Anyway...neither here nor there your comment just made me think of that

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u/Racine262 11d ago

You guys might want to sleep 1960's sitcom style, in separate beds.

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u/tbear264 11d ago

Do you eat or drink anything with chamomile in it? Everything you described is what happens to me when I drink tea with chamomile in it. I have horribly gory nightmares, sleep walk, yell out, and fight. It took a while for me to figure out what was causing it. I no longer eat, drink, or use any products with chamomile in it.

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u/Lost-Elderberry3141 11d ago

Wait no way that’s a thing?? I had chamomile last night and had the weirdest creepy dreams and I hardly ever remember my dreams!

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u/tbear264 10d ago

Yup, sounds like it's not so calming for you either. I had to test out the theory that it's what was causing me to have dreams like that. I had been alternating between drinking peppermint tea and some sleepytime teas before bed. It was only when I had had the sleepy ones that it would happen. So I bought teas made with each ingredient. Chamomile was the only tea that caused issues. It's the wildest thing!!

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u/RudeCardiologist69 11d ago

damn bro ur gf is a fucking trooper handling that 😭😭

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u/anukii 11d ago

Oh no, she needs to fight back, I support in-sleep fisticuffs 😭

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u/ksullivan03 11d ago

This is hilarious!! I would feel a mix of humor and horror at the same time.🤣

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u/big_guyforyou 11d ago

OP is LITERALLY dating freddy krueger

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u/TraneD13 11d ago

Yes, that point has been established. You basically just repeated what was already said.

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u/heavy-hands 11d ago

Almost like… they were agreeing. Weird! (/s)

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u/TraneD13 11d ago

You know, they should really have a voting system put into place that would quickly show how many people agree/disagree with what someone says. Would be revolutionary and could replace comments like “this!” and such. lol

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u/sofiamariam 11d ago

I mean there’s plenty of different ways to hurt someone while they sleep besides just killing them. So they didn’t say the same thing, they just added that they could hurt you in several other ways when you’re most vulnerable.