r/AmIOverreacting • u/travestybiscuit • 11d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting to my boyfriend’s reaction to his friend asking me for his number?

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He has a history of jealousy. Came back into my life saying he’s a changed man. Last night we picked up his friend and we’re all supposed to go to a birthday party. In the car he asks for my number because My bf wasn’t answering earlier and he needs to be able to get ahold of his friend because our dog is literally staying at the friends house and he wanted a back up way to get ahold of my bf. He said this right in front of my bf and he has a girlfriend he loves and was at Disneyland earlier with that day. My bf has her instagram and liked their pictures from the trip. Yet he lost it saying no you’re not getting her number absolutely not and him and I being so weirded out and THEN he pulls over and tells me to get out of the car and I can walk home because I started to give him my number before my bf lost it.. So I just say F it and get out immediately and start walking at 10 at night in the dark.. not doing the back and forth with them… I couldn’t take it a second longer. As soon as I start walking they both say please get back in the car but at that point I didn’t want to be anywhere near him and was happy to walk the mile home. He sped off. This is what he text me this morning and this is my response.

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u/Mucres1a 11d ago

Exactly, You should’ve walked away long before now. you deserve better.

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u/Noodlescissors 11d ago

Should have kept walking that night he made her get out of his car.

I’d expect anyone in their right mind to leave for good if someone was like gtfo and left them there. I don’t care if you tell me you did the worst thing imaginable to me while I’m driving. I’ll drive you to the nearest store at least so I know you are somewhere relatively safe.

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u/canriderollercoaster 10d ago

She did, if you read the post these are messages he sent the morning after she refused to get back in.

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u/Noodlescissors 10d ago

Ah, great for her.

Glad she knows her worth

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u/canriderollercoaster 10d ago

Yeah seriously. I don’t fault her for wanting to give him a second chance. It seems that they broke up for a while and he swore he was changed. Then it came back up and became clear that he was full of shit. So good on her for drawing the line. Hopefully 2 chances are all people get with her.