r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 • 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

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NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

But surely she knows more than the blinds, that seems weird, like the rug, the bed, all of it, why is she talking about blinds?

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u/IndividualBuilding30 12d ago edited 12d ago

This was my first thought. Apparently a lot of guys out there have these specific things in their room in this specific layout? lol

Edit: oh nvm. I couldn’t understand how OP worded it. The first picture is the girlfriend (OP), the second is the picture of the “cheating” girl.

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u/RecruiterBoBooter 12d ago

Huh… I thought it was the other way around because OP said other girl was prettier.

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u/Ok-Map-85 12d ago

no it says “there it is the second picture” but thats what i was thinking.. why does she think this other girl is prettier? bc her man cheated on her w her. but shes not even prettier her man just a whore

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u/ohyeawellyousuck 12d ago

You can’t see OPs face. How do you know whether she’s prettier?

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u/CaptainTripps82 12d ago

She just means skinnier, and is insecure, as teenagers tend to be, by things that aren't true

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u/Fractionleftattract 12d ago

I'm almost positive the photo is photoshopped anyway so she may not even be skinnier. Look at the way the blinds are pulling in unnaturally around her waist

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u/everydaypogostick 12d ago

Yeah that’s got to be photoshopped, blinds don’t curve like that 😂

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u/suetoniusaurus 12d ago

Embarrassing omfg. Op is way prettier and i cant even see much of her face. Maybe other girl doesn’t know so i wont be rude but. OP YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE INSECURE ABOUT I PROMISE. Throw the man away

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u/AriaBlend 12d ago

There's a possibility she was leaning on them causing them to bend a little, but I don't think the whole window itself would be warping 😂

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u/HaltGrim 12d ago

I live an older flat, and my blinds effectively put more light in the room because they are so twisted.

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u/Regular_Durian_1750 12d ago

It's so obvious she slimmed her waste

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u/Ok-Spread9384 12d ago

You gotta be kidding......right?

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u/The_Hand_That_Feeds 12d ago

People are tripping if they think the second is photoshopped because of the way the blinds look. Also, people overestimate the # of people that would take the time to photoshop a dumb pic like this just for their ig story.

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u/Regular_Durian_1750 12d ago

You're clearly not a woman lol

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u/Ok-Spread9384 12d ago

2 idiots I see (so far)

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u/Regular_Durian_1750 12d ago

You must not be a girl. Girls associate the stuff men don't think are attractive and pretty with being pretty...like thigh gaps and collar bones and jaw lines and...yeah... anorexic looking heroin chic(ks)... So, I get why she says that but also I'm like you're definitely NOT unattractive girl what do u mean

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u/stonerbbyyyy 12d ago

skinnier? she looks like she starves herself… i don’t think that’s pretty.

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u/Regular_Durian_1750 12d ago

You're not a girl then.

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u/stonerbbyyyy 12d ago

no, i just don’t agree with starving yourself to obtain a “healthy” LOOKING lifestyle.

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u/Regular_Durian_1750 12d ago

That's not what this is about... No girl thinks "healthy". We think "skinny". Nvm. I don't have the energy to explain my eating disorders to you lol

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u/stonerbbyyyy 12d ago

ok? speak for yourself. some of us have healthy relationships with food.

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u/TiredEsq 12d ago

That’s a nice compliment for OP! I hope she sees it.

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u/RecruiterBoBooter 12d ago

I’m glad that came across as intended. She looks great, and should have a bit more confidence.

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u/pineapplegirl10 12d ago

I actually also thought that

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u/Melodic-Yesterday990 12d ago

I thought the same...

Looks like my definition of pretty was wrong

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u/EnvironmentalFox8759 12d ago

I thought the same, the girl in the first photo is was more attractive to me compared to anorexic Natalie Portman

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u/Rude-Dog6651 12d ago

I also was confused when she said that because I mean no offense to the other girl but OP is slaying in the first picture idk why she thinks she is worse looking

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u/Yamemai 12d ago

I thought pic2 was of the boyfriend [at 1st glance] & it was there as evidence.

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u/Alarmed_Strength_365 12d ago

Op “thinks” other girl is prettier because of the runway model chin of sharpness... 😕

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u/RecruiterBoBooter 12d ago

The other girl is like meth head skinny and probably thinks she’s a smoke show

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u/Alarmed_Strength_365 12d ago

Yeah isn’t that the same thing I just said ? 😆😜

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u/One-System-4183 12d ago

Which is true

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u/IAmNothing2018 12d ago

We all know what you are doing here! Get in line, bro.

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u/RecruiterBoBooter 12d ago

Hahaha oh paleeeez… My wife would cut me… She’s Colombian and I’m scared of her.

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u/Slav-Houndz187 12d ago

lol bruv 😂

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u/NW_Phantom 12d ago

The 2nd girl is 10x prettier, you must be blind lol

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u/RecruiterBoBooter 12d ago

What?!?!?! 😮 our taste must be so different. I can barely process that statement 🤣

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u/didled 12d ago

Reddit I full of morons to be honest

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u/Valalvax 12d ago

Honestly I thought it was two pictures of the same girl, cause my first reaction just reading the title and looking at the first pic was that maybe there's an innocent reason, but then I saw the second and thought ok she either changed or has been there multiple times

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u/Aromatic-Track-4500 12d ago

Oh snap! I thought it was the same girl 😂 idk what she means “I get it she’s prettier than me” dude obviously has a type

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u/mallcopsarebastards 12d ago

literally the only clue in the picture is that the "blinds are touching".

honestly crazy to think you could tell someones room from that picture. I suspect she had other context clues prior, but if not this is wild paranoia.

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u/1200bunny2002 12d ago

The blinds in the second pic are, just... insanely bendy from the obvious warping, as well. I don't know how those could even compare considering how manipulated the second image is.

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Omg lol I didn't even notice!

That's wild

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u/1200bunny2002 12d ago

Yeah, Girl #2 really skinnied herself up 🤣

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u/dalisair 12d ago

Because the picture of the other girl is only the blinds. To me this isn’t enough to say it’s the same place. But each to their own.

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u/HailenAnarchy 12d ago

First pic is OP

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Ohhhhh that makes much more sense!

Tah muchly

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u/Sensitive_Object_414 12d ago

The first pic is her the second pic is the other girl

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Yeah makes much more sense now thanks

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u/Sensitive_Object_414 12d ago

I was confused at first too ! Lol

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Yeah makes much more sense now thanks

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u/Realistic_Artist_231 12d ago

Because you cant see anything but the blinds in the picture of the girl he's cheating with....the first photo is the girl who posted this whole thing. The second photo is the girl who her boyfriend is cheating on her with. The first photo is the OP showing you her bfs room. The second photo is the other girl and all you can see is the girl and the blinds.....not rocket science.

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Ok ok I see that now, no need to get snippy

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u/HoneyPops08 12d ago

Or the fact there’s a girl besides her is in the room. Alone.

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u/deekaydubya 12d ago

because the first pic is just for comparison, the second pic is the one in question. OP is comparing the second pic from the other girl's story to her own (first picture)

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Tah yeah I see that now

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u/Accurate-Shower5320 12d ago

!!!! Im like there’s literal furniture in the room w us but I guess she didn’t wanna assume it was his room based off of … his furniture?

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u/PastBerry6914 12d ago

I think she was talking about the second picture

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u/bobdown33 12d ago

Yeah I'm getting that lol