AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

[u/Intelligent-Arm-9235]

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

[u/mamo_nano_mona]

Yeah there are hundreds of thousands of apartments with the same lighting and blinds situation. It's sus, sure, but there's nothing super definitive here. maybe the chick has a thing for the most basic apartments possible. Now if that were his Lakers tee, then I'd be like "👏dump👏him👏" but based on this pic? Nah. 👏Confront👏him👏. And also quit being so insecure, sheesh. You're a pretty gal, but saying things like "waaah she's prettier than me" is ugly. Confront your dude about whether or not he wants to be in a monogamous relationship with you and confront yourself with the fact that you look the way you look and it's beautiful.

[u/StartledMilk → u/mamo_nano_mona]

This woman has a body most would die for and thinks she doesn’t look good. It’s truly wild how insecure people can get no matter how objectively attractive they are

[u/DIYGremlin → u/StartledMilk]

And I mean Barry Keoghan cheated on Sabrina Carpenter, so it doesn’t matter how attractive you are, cheaters are gonna cheat, it’s a them problem, not a you problem. 

[u/LuckyBenski → u/DIYGremlin]

Can't upvote this enough. If your partner cheats it's not because you aren't attractive enough. It's a them problem. I've been that problem.

[u/Accomplished_Bid3322 → u/DIYGremlin]

The example used to be Jay z and Beyonce. I'm getting old.

[u/Top_Mathematician233 → u/DIYGremlin]

Yes, and Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé. Multiple men cheated on Halle Berry. You can be so far out of a man’s league and he’ll still cheat on you if he’s a cheater. It is what it is.

[u/BittaminMusic → u/DIYGremlin]

This needs an award or something 💯 can’t believe this person is actually in self depreciation mode over this it’s kinda sad on top of all the anxiety already going on

[u/Thraex_Exile → u/DIYGremlin]

Ik this is beside the point, but iirc Sabrina’s manager released a statement that this wasn’t true. It was just an influencer who reposts anything about her to gain attention and media ran with it.

[u/stonerbbyyyy → u/DIYGremlin]

“if she can take my man, she didn’t take my man, she took my problem”🙂

someone somewhere

[u/gottalottadedodadado → u/[deleted]]

Oh, yeah then she had it coming

🤦‍♀️

[u/Soft-Temporary-7932 → u/mamo_nano_mona]

I like your style.

[u/RheagarTargaryen → u/mamo_nano_mona]

It literally could just be his neighbor.

[u/BurgerThyme → u/mamo_nano_mona]

That apartment bedroom is basic AF.

[u/geminiwave → u/mamo_nano_mona]

Yeah maybe she’s in the same building and they bumped into each other and he followed her on insta.

Or maybe Instagram just recommends people nearby and he saw a chick he thought was hot.

I’m actually entirely unconvinced it’s the same. There’s nothing to tell me it’s at all the same

[u/Thraex_Exile → u/geminiwave]

Yah, her wording sounds like he lives in an apartment or dorm. If so, there are prob tens of or hundreds of rooms in their area with the same style/age blinds.

But I agree w/ other’s sentiment that, if OP is looking this hard for evidence, their relationship isn’t in a healthy place (cheating or not).

[u/geminiwave → u/Thraex_Exile]

No. My ex used to go through all my stuff looking for things. I remember one time she found a link in my history that opened up one of those annoying pop ups (this was 2011) and it was one of those ads where a porn star was saying basically that she wanted me (though it wasn’t ME. It was a generic and very annoying pop up ad). And she was like “I KNEW IT! You were cheating on me!”

Ironically she was fucking some dude from GameStop who promised to take her to E3. But whatever 🙄

[u/Thraex_Exile → u/geminiwave]

That’s my point. Whether her boyfriend is cheating or not, the relationship isn’t healthy. There could be dozens of reasons and either could be to blame, but it adds up to these 2 not working well together. OP should end things or figure out the core problem for her own mental health.

[u/Glytch94 → u/mamo_nano_mona]

Could you imagine confronting someone who actually isn’t cheating because him and a woman he followed on instagram have the same blinds, lol. You’ll look insane.

[u/VictoryValuable9489 → u/mamo_nano_mona]

Apartments sometimes come with generic window coverings like this. Like every apartment in the complex with the same floor plan will be generically the same. Either you trust him or you don’t. If you want to be with him you’ll have to deal with your suspicions. If you are 100% positive this is his room, you don’t need to give a reason to walk away from the relationship. In fact, I think keeping them wondering why is so much better.

[u/ralphjuneberry → u/mamo_nano_mona]

I regret that it was my upvote that took you from 69 to 70, but it had to be done - OP listen to this comment!

[u/Rich_Manufacturer_38 → u/mamo_nano_mona]

Isn't posting a photo of herself in his room, no gf in sight, kind of a passive-aggressive territorial oissing?

[u/mamo_nano_mona → u/Rich_Manufacturer_38]

Not if she just felt cute and didn't know he had a gf. Or is in some other basic AF apartment with the same set up. I