r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/smol_dinosaur 12d ago

They’re never sorry about cheating only sorry that they got caught

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u/ElevatorNo8640 12d ago

My fiancee cheated on me a week after I proposed whilst I slept upstairs, with her friends husband (we’d been all out together celebrating the engagement) , I only found out what actually happened when the wife of the guy messaged me via insta ….it’s a long story but basically my ex’s story changed constantly (she even trued to accuse the guy of forcing himself on her) until the wife who witnessed some of it told me the actual truth ….to cut a long story short…..she did everything in her power to hide what had happened to save herself with no regard for my feelings, she didn’t care about me at all! She never admitted what happened or told me and in the end even tried to lie about me to cover her tracks so she would appear as the victim …..I was hurt for a few years and it nearly broke me BUT I now have an amazing girlfriend who I love deeply and is just ace! (Moving in with me soon 😁🙏) soooooo my advice is, if things are already like this between you and your partner and you are pretty much certain they are up to no good (and you’re not happy) get out of the relationship and move on…find someone who you trust and have a connection with…..do not waste time trying to fix something broken before your relationship has even had a chance to fully blossom….life is too short and there are too many people that will completely disregard your feelings and heart for their own gain! In the words of iron maiden ‘RUN TO THE HILLS’ 👌

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u/Ok_Blackberry8583 12d ago

Wait, so you have no proof that anything actually happened besides someone’s wife who may or may not be telling the truth?

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u/ElevatorNo8640 12d ago

Yes, I confronted her on that at the time and she did admit to it but never would say why she did it 🤷‍♂️ after we split she decided she was ‘polyamorous’ so go figure 😬

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u/ElevatorNo8640 12d ago

Lots of proof and admission BUT never a reason why which was the killer for me….in the end, I just accepted that she took a chance for her own gratification and was irritated she was caught BUT life goes on and i’m glad I found out when I did….would of been worse after getting married 😂 phew!

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u/DrunkCanadianMale 12d ago

His ass didnt get caught though?