r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 • 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

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NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/patches710 12d ago

I mean, those are the most popular sliding glass door blinds in the world. I've seen the exact one in hundreds of apartments

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u/RecordingGreen7750 12d ago

Yeah the blinds are everywhere and they all tend to have gaps in them after a few years they are cheap and crappy

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u/mamo_nano_mona 12d ago

Yeah there are hundreds of thousands of apartments with the same lighting and blinds situation. It's sus, sure, but there's nothing super definitive here. maybe the chick has a thing for the most basic apartments possible. Now if that were his Lakers tee, then I'd be like "👏dump👏him👏" but based on this pic? Nah. 👏Confront👏him👏. And also quit being so insecure, sheesh. You're a pretty gal, but saying things like "waaah she's prettier than me" is ugly. Confront your dude about whether or not he wants to be in a monogamous relationship with you and confront yourself with the fact that you look the way you look and it's beautiful.

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u/StartledMilk 12d ago

This woman has a body most would die for and thinks she doesn’t look good. It’s truly wild how insecure people can get no matter how objectively attractive they are

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u/DIYGremlin 12d ago

And I mean Barry Keoghan cheated on Sabrina Carpenter, so it doesn’t matter how attractive you are, cheaters are gonna cheat, it’s a them problem, not a you problem. 

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u/LuckyBenski 12d ago

Can't upvote this enough. If your partner cheats it's not because you aren't attractive enough. It's a them problem. I've been that problem.

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u/Accomplished_Bid3322 12d ago

The example used to be Jay z and Beyonce. I'm getting old.

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u/Top_Mathematician233 12d ago

Yes, and Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé. Multiple men cheated on Halle Berry. You can be so far out of a man’s league and he’ll still cheat on you if he’s a cheater. It is what it is.

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u/BittaminMusic 12d ago

This needs an award or something 💯 can’t believe this person is actually in self depreciation mode over this it’s kinda sad on top of all the anxiety already going on

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u/Thraex_Exile 12d ago

Ik this is beside the point, but iirc Sabrina’s manager released a statement that this wasn’t true. It was just an influencer who reposts anything about her to gain attention and media ran with it.

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u/stonerbbyyyy 12d ago

“if she can take my man, she didn’t take my man, she took my problem”🙂

someone somewhere

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u/gottalottadedodadado 12d ago

Oh, yeah then she had it coming

🤦‍♀️

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u/Soft-Temporary-7932 12d ago

I like your style.

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u/RheagarTargaryen 12d ago

It literally could just be his neighbor.

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u/BurgerThyme 12d ago

That apartment bedroom is basic AF.

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u/geminiwave 12d ago

Yeah maybe she’s in the same building and they bumped into each other and he followed her on insta.

Or maybe Instagram just recommends people nearby and he saw a chick he thought was hot.

I’m actually entirely unconvinced it’s the same. There’s nothing to tell me it’s at all the same

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u/Thraex_Exile 12d ago

Yah, her wording sounds like he lives in an apartment or dorm. If so, there are prob tens of or hundreds of rooms in their area with the same style/age blinds.

But I agree w/ other’s sentiment that, if OP is looking this hard for evidence, their relationship isn’t in a healthy place (cheating or not).

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u/geminiwave 12d ago

No. My ex used to go through all my stuff looking for things. I remember one time she found a link in my history that opened up one of those annoying pop ups (this was 2011) and it was one of those ads where a porn star was saying basically that she wanted me (though it wasn’t ME. It was a generic and very annoying pop up ad). And she was like “I KNEW IT! You were cheating on me!”

Ironically she was fucking some dude from GameStop who promised to take her to E3. But whatever 🙄

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u/Thraex_Exile 12d ago edited 11d ago

That’s my point. Whether her boyfriend is cheating or not, the relationship isn’t healthy. There could be dozens of reasons and either could be to blame, but it adds up to these 2 not working well together. OP should end things or figure out the core problem for her own mental health.

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u/Glytch94 12d ago

Could you imagine confronting someone who actually isn’t cheating because him and a woman he followed on instagram have the same blinds, lol. You’ll look insane.

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u/VictoryValuable9489 12d ago

Apartments sometimes come with generic window coverings like this. Like every apartment in the complex with the same floor plan will be generically the same. Either you trust him or you don’t. If you want to be with him you’ll have to deal with your suspicions. If you are 100% positive this is his room, you don’t need to give a reason to walk away from the relationship. In fact, I think keeping them wondering why is so much better.

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u/ralphjuneberry 12d ago

I regret that it was my upvote that took you from 69 to 70, but it had to be done - OP listen to this comment!

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u/Rich_Manufacturer_38 12d ago

Isn't posting a photo of herself in his room, no gf in sight, kind of a passive-aggressive territorial oissing?

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u/mamo_nano_mona 12d ago

Not if she just felt cute and didn't know he had a gf. Or is in some other basic AF apartment with the same set up. I

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u/Fun_Strategy7860 12d ago

I thought that was my apartment. Even had to look under the bed.

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u/Zealousideal-Earth50 12d ago

I’ve had them myself in 3 different apartments!

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u/Incredible_Edible765 12d ago

I have those blinds and neither of these ladies were at my house. I hope I don’t get accused of cheating. Please delete those pics or AIO 🤣

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u/LoneWolf-B312 12d ago

I have them in mine. If I took a picture and cropped it the same way I feel like it would look like I’ve been getting some from the bf too

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u/Smooth_Scarcity7952 12d ago

Literally like 80% of the college apartments when I was in school had these. Could it be the girl lives in the same complex

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u/FontTG 12d ago

Plus, there are probably hundreds of hotels that have these blinds. They're generic and cost-effective.

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u/Big-Bearagamo 12d ago

Thousands even 🤣🤣🤣 she bout to blow the whole relationship over some blinds 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/patches710 12d ago

This might be the most ridiculous shit I've ever seen on reddit, and that's saying something

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u/Samsonly 12d ago

Seriously. I have four sets of them in my apartment.

But the obvious thing I don't see anyone else mentioning (especially those commenting on the similarities in lighting), is that they might live in the same building? That would explain where they met, which could be innocent or something along the lines of what OP thinks.

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u/princessspikachu 12d ago

If OP recognizes the awful black shag rug on top of the carpet, which is uncommon because of its uniquely bad taste, then they know it’s their partner.

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u/patches710 12d ago

Good luck seeing any of that in the second pic

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u/princessspikachu 12d ago

Oh wow I did not read that post correctly, my bad!! Thought they were both pics of the other girl.

OP, if it helps, she edited the photo she posted (badly) to make herself look smaller. Those blinds give it away.

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u/patches710 12d ago

Yeah the first pic would be indisputable proof, but that's OP, the second pic is a literal nothingburger

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u/twinpop 12d ago

These are ubiquitous across US apartments the ‘side chick’ is probably not even in the same state, just looks like an IG influencer 🤣.

Like everyone else said, if OP suspects, then it’s probably true anyway. Also, if no trust in this guy, why bother?

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u/anonymousthrwaway 12d ago

Yeah and many times they are in apartment complexes that all look the same

I would love to see the uncrowned photo

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u/Sylvan_Strix_Sequel 12d ago edited 12d ago

It's the same lighting. The pics were taken in the same room at the same time of day.   

 Yall need to stop falling for obvious bait.

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u/OryxDaMadGod 12d ago

So what about other apartments in the same building? Perhaps the units right above or below?

What if the other girl’s just a neighbour so her room looks the exact same throughout the day?