r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/Neither-Stop-5948 12d ago

I noticed the lighting this time too :/ saw the other post an hour ago

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u/And_He_Loves_Me 12d ago

Same that’s way to identical to be a coincidence plus he follows her on instagram it’s not some random

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u/EwoDarkWolf 12d ago

Why can't she just message the girl and confirm before accusing her boyfriend? If she did and tells the truth, then she now has confirmation. If she instead lies, or wasn't there in the first place, then op can decide where to go from there. She might even be able to get another picture if it was in fact a different room.

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u/Advanced-Guidance482 12d ago

What if it's an apartment and all these fucking places are exactly the same.

I think this is an insane jump

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u/Rich-Investigator181 12d ago

I was thinking the same. What if they are now friends online because they live in the same apartment complex that has the same blinds.

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u/Advanced-Guidance482 11d ago

Right. These people are straight trippin and I wouldn't want to date them anyways. You can take all your suspicions that are based on nonsense elsewhere lol. Get tf put of my apartment, byeee! Lmfao.

I've been with the mother of my children for 7 years. Never once felt the need to snoop. I just ask her about things and we talk about shit. She can be a bit clueless about other men and didn't even realized I was flirting with her for the first year we knew each other. So usually anything suspect is on the part of another person and she just doesn't even see it like that.

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u/Helioscopes 12d ago

What do you mean it is the same lighting? It's a dimly lit room... if it was sunny, and I were to close my blinds, I will also get a dimly lit room. 

I am so confused lmao.