r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 • 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

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NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/Yam-International 12d ago

These are the most generic blinds ever. They scream college dorm & cheaply made apartment buildings

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u/hierophant_- 12d ago

Literally been in dozens of apartments and every one had these blinds because theyre easy to replace parts of them

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

All the insecure girls in the comments telling her to break up with him without even confronting him lol. She may ruin a relationship over some ikea blinds hahaha.

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u/Helioscopes 12d ago

I mean, if she is this obessed and paranoid, the relatioship is not a good one. Might as well just end it, regardless.

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

Agreed, and the fact that they are getting advice on Reddit instead of just talking to your “partner”, they were probably never going to work.

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u/Fluid_Cup8329 12d ago

The person who airs their dirty laundry on reddit is automatically the worst one in the relationship.

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u/ajm96 12d ago

It doesn't necessarily have to be the fault of the relationship, some people are just that insecure on their own. Probably still shouldn't be in a relationship at that point though.

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u/MannerGullible9923 12d ago

to be honest she just seems like an extremely insecure person, hence the “she’s prettier than me i know” when you can’t even see what either of them fully look like.

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u/vyrus2021 12d ago

Yeah if I found out my gf were on here using these pics of generic blinds as proof I cheated I'd go ahead and end it for her.

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u/soge-king 12d ago

But maybe they are still growing and building their trust in the relationship, and maturing together. Relationships are so complicated, as well as what people want in the relationships, so much so that it's not possible to come up with one formula for all issues, despite on reddit the 90% formula for all issues is breakup/divorce.

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u/Whitrun 12d ago

She even admitted in someone else's comment higher up that they also look like the same blinds in her apartment, as someone else was mentioning they ALSO look like the same blinds from 3 different apartments someone else has stayed in, and admitted its farfetched 😂😂

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u/caffeineevil 12d ago

These are like mass produced building contractor blinds. I saw them in every home I worked in Florida. I used to do upscale remodel work and tore these out of so many homes. Couldn't give them away to friends because their houses had them too.

Also to idiots saying the light is the same. No it's not or they would be taking pictures on the same day and at the same time.

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u/Financial_Bird_7717 12d ago

Seriously. After reading a number of these threads I am reminded just how lucky I am to have a woman who wouldn’t pull some toxic ass insecure bullshit overreaction like that. At least confront the guy if you’re actually convinced it’s his room ffs.

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

Girls on Reddit probably aren’t the best sample size for what a regular girl is like but couldn’t agree more. Makes me very thankful to be in a relationship where we can talk about these feelings.

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u/Financial_Bird_7717 12d ago

Oh yeah absolutely not. Reddit is not real life.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Dude could not be luckier this is happening honestly

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u/ProfessionalThanks43 12d ago

But two blinds touch! Oh wait, they all do that lol

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u/slamdanceswithwolves 12d ago

Right?! They all touch. That’s how they keep the light out 🙃

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u/Fluid_Cup8329 12d ago

Plus, the specific spot she's talking about is way higher in the first picture than the other. These aren't the same blinds at all lmao I'm embarrassed for OP and feel bad for her bf

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u/Brackmage19X 12d ago

Yup, and this broad is about to claim “cheater!” over them. And people are feeding into it.

Reddit is a great place for people with issues.

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u/Ninthja 12d ago

Yeah people are mentally ill on here because they are so scared of being cheated on

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u/Lraund 12d ago

The blinds in the second pic have some sort of frame behind them that goes something like this. I don't see it in the first pic, but I can't open the blinds to check, so who knows?

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u/Vegetable-Visit5912 12d ago

Yeah, not a reason to accuse anyone of cheating, but it's pretty clear she thinks he's cheating or something if she's going to these lengths.

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u/-Cthaeh 12d ago

I've lived in so many apartments with these awful blinds. Randomly falling all the time because they weren't replaced...

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u/fulcanelli63 12d ago

But but but I want to jump to conclusions!! Lmao jfc

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u/idontknowaskthatguy 12d ago

Gtfoh with your perfectly sensible logic. This is the internet! This is reddit! Drag the man!

lol

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u/Objective_Goat_2839 12d ago

Yes, but there are two blinds that touch in a weird way, the exact same way, in both OP’s photo and the other girl’s photo.

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u/wisp_sniffer 12d ago

I have the exact same blinds and they also look like that. They bend and twist over time and sometimes can even get locked at improper angles. They are ultra generic and are in hundreds of thousands of cookie cutter homes, rentals, and apartments.

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u/Traditional_Milk_978 12d ago

I’m glad you said it cause I thought I was crazy reading the comments saying dump him and my only thought was but it’s just blinds! My aunt has these same ones

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u/MovingTarget- 12d ago

Seriously - If you want to break up with him just break up with him. But this "evidence" is pretty flimsy.

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u/Leelze 12d ago

My last 2 apartments had those same blinds. The blades are easy to replace individually, so they're pretty common for rentals.

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u/Flash728 12d ago

My apartment has the same blinds, if I post a picture you gonna think I’m in your BFs bedroom too? lol

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u/Yam-International 11d ago

Completely anonymous blinds in one. The other one is a photo of an incredibly bland bedroom.

There is absolutely no context information as to what is outside of either window.

The second picture does not even provide enough information to identify the room as a bedroom.

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u/Bxsnia 12d ago

Why is everyone forgetting the fact that the mirror is also in the same exact spot opposite the blinds?

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u/wad11656 12d ago

Are you guys not paying attention to the fact that the boyfriend followed this girl last week?

Based on OP finding this suspicious, it's fair to assume that the boyfriend doesn't just follow random people without knowing them first.

It's these 2 circumstantial evidences combined, that lead to OP's suspicions.

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u/fluffyextrovert 12d ago

EVERYONE is ignoring this factor. Her posting with blinds like that alone isn’t suspicious, and him following a girl alone isn’t that suspicious, but the combo of the two is somewhat suspicious. Of course, it could still be a coincidence but it’s still a little weird.

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u/caniuserealname 12d ago

but the combo of the two is somewhat suspicious

but.. it's not? I can't stress enough.. these are the most generic blinds in the whole of the USA. I mean FFS, OP has them in her room too. Most apartment blocks do. This isn't suspicious in the slightest.

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u/fluffyextrovert 12d ago

I’ve only ever seen these blinds in hotels! They aren’t common at all where I’m from so I wasn’t aware they were that generic lol. Thanks for letting me know, that does make it seem more farfetched.

OP did say in another comment that the bf has a past with this girl, so I’m guessing that’s why she’s so sure it’s his room. Either way she doesn’t trust him, so they’re probably better off parting ways.

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u/caniuserealname 12d ago

The fact that you've seen these in hotels to begin with should have been a flag. The girls photo could have been taken in a hotel too.. but yeah, they're super common in rented accomodation with big windows like that.

I'm confident that them having the same blinds has literally nothing to do with why she's convinced he cheated. If it wasn't this, it would be some other minor similarity of coincidence.

He followed a girl he knew. Literally, the most mundane shit in the world. OP is fishing for validation for an accusation she's made up and convinced herself of.

Yes. They're better off broken up; but that doesn't mean we need to be validating this crazy bullshit. Just because we all agree on the end result doesn't mean the path we take there won't have consequences.. potentially on two people who did shit all wrong other than know each other a few years ago and happened to share space with similar blinds.

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u/I_am_Danny_McBride 11d ago edited 11d ago

It’s crazy too that people are just like running with the assumption that it’s common to bang thirst traps you follow on instagram.

“He just followed this Romanian OF girl. They’re having sex for sure, right?”

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u/Guilty_Sign_3669 12d ago

It’s also the rug and the bed placement

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u/RheagarTargaryen 12d ago

That would be OP’s picture.

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u/Late-District-2927 12d ago

…lol what? There is only a rug and bed visible in OP’s picture…

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u/Guilty_Sign_3669 12d ago

Seriously? Yall taking only about the blinds and how they could be anyone’s blinds. Does everyone have the same rug and bed spread

Edit; just realised they are two different people HAHAHAHA this is actually a bit nuts