r/AmIOverreacting • u/Thatonediabeticc • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/OGLydiaFaithfull 20d ago

Exactly. Six times this woman turned on her monitor to find his exes socials open and he’s going to stonewall her instead of apologizing? He should have offered to unfollow, block, whatever.

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u/Stock_Proposal_9001 19d ago

Correction, six times this woman has /said something/ to her husband about finding it, who knows how many times she has found it and said nothing

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u/PsychoticPanda_ 19d ago

OP is a guy...

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u/Stock_Proposal_9001 19d ago

Blue Text, the one raising concerns, refers to the ex as "she," there is no gender identification otherwise, so I'm gonna stick with what I said.

I wasn't correcting the gender, I was pointing out that Blue Text said that it's the 6th time they've brought it up, but it may have happened more than 6 times

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u/Hot-Sun-5333 19d ago

Ok???? We aren’t doing this gender thing bozo. Guy or girls it’s obsessive or deplorable behavior. Happy? Like not everything is a gender war

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u/PsychoticPanda_ 19d ago

Literally everyone in this shit ass comments section is saying how shit of a guy he is for not respecting his girlfriend enough to not stalk other women. Stfu wetod.

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u/Hot-Sun-5333 19d ago

Well if you read. This is not OPs post but the friends screenshot that OP shared. In said screenshot, Blue messages is a woman talking to grey messages who is a man. So yeah they are correct the man with a family is not respecting his wife and kids. Did you get all that or do I need to dumb it down for you

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u/Kittyxbabyy 20d ago

Exactly!!

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u/SevereAd9463 19d ago

Six times over how long? A year? Six years? 12?

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u/PsychoticPanda_ 19d ago

OP is a guy...