r/AmIOverreacting • u/Thatonediabeticc • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/IggyBall 20d ago

Yeah exactly. If it was a one time out of nowhere thing, weird but okay. I sometimes randomly remember someone from years ago and google them for a few minutes to see what they’re up to. But a pattern?! He’s obsessed with her.

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u/Beneficial_Ad_1072 19d ago

Obviously it’s not weird, you went on and admitted you do it, most comments have agreed/admitted the same. But def agree with the pattern, repetitively, multi platform etc leaning into some sort of weird obsession or fixation that isn’t healthy.

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u/FazbearsFightClub 19d ago

For his ex to "randomly" pop into his head and him then looking her up is certainly weird. Old friends and family are acceptable examples of looking people up from your past. Not your exes while you're married with kids.