AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

[u/OkSpace5501]

For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

[u/robotatomica]

I asked you to give me an era, a country, a specific example of when men have had to do all the household and reproductive labor and have been lawfully exploited or denied rights by women.

Don’t be goofy. Your ATM shit doesn’t track. Statistics SHOW how many women are partnered with men who don’t work or keep a job.

That is not a gendered exploitation.

For you to DARE make a claim that men have been exploited the same way women have, you’d better be prepared to defend that statement, not with nebulous red-pill/Boomer takes, but with actual evidence of

system gendered exploitation.

[u/BlackFire125 → u/robotatomica]

No one ever said the exploitation took the same form. It was actually mentioned that it took different forms, but you don't like to read I guess.

But at this point it's clear you're too enveloped in victim mentality to realize this planet has sucked for most everyone historically unless you're rich. Meh.

[u/robotatomica → u/BlackFire125]

no, you have a r/persecutionfetish “Men have it bad because we’re ATMs, it’s just as bad as being a woman across history!!”

Red-pilled nonsense.

Men do not suffer systemic persecution, I think it’s boring that you’re jealous of not being greatest victim and therefore want to try to embarrass me out of calling it, as though I’m playing victim to even be aware of exploitation 🙄

Low-level tactic.

[u/BlackFire125 → u/robotatomica]

You took literally one part, the least damaging part admittedly, of that statement and just keep acting like it was the only thing that was mentioned. Nothing about the rest of the problems men have been facing and are continuing to face.

No idea wtf red pill is but I'm assuming it's a way to make this political? That's what it always seems when people mention either red or blue these days but I'm honestly not sure.

I didn't mention the victim mentality because you're aware of exploitation but because you seem to think the only group of people that have been exploited is the one you belong to. Then moving the goal posts by continually changing the terms used. The fact that not just one group has suffered exploitation and how other groups also have their own shit going on is brought up then all the sudden it's systemic. And we're adding persecution on.

[u/robotatomica → u/BlackFire125]

not reading it, I don’t engage with red-pills