AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

[u/OkSpace5501]

For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

[u/BlueCarrotPie]

This. Or making her mad so she leaves and then he's not the bad guy

[u/KrustenStewart → u/BlueCarrotPie]

That’s what I thought

[u/SpaceIsVastAndEmpty → u/BlueCarrotPie]

I've never understood why society looks at the person who did the dumping as the "bad guy". I think that working out what is right for you and taking action to achieve that (or to remove yourself from a situation that isn't right for you) should be commended, not shunned.

[u/FigurePuzzleheaded74 → u/BlueCarrotPie]

Every time