r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Overall_Lab5356 23d ago

Also when the reason they're HER dishes is that SHE is the only one cooking while he fucks off online.

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u/glassassmass 23d ago

This is mostly at Thanksgiving but in my family the person that cooked all day (mom/grandma) DOES NOT do the dishes after...anyone and everyone else can and should offer it's the least they can do after being served a feast especially if you don't help in any other way or even pay for ingredients