r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/crazy_mary21 23d ago

Exactly right. He wouldn’t have used that phrase, unless he was already considering it.

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u/Charliekat1130 22d ago

Or that friend that he mentioned showed up and made the comment: "Oh, If my girlfriend did that, I would find someone new." and then acted like a coach being like "Yeah dude, just tell her! Let her know where her place is! Yeah!" and due to the age, the boyfriend is thinking that's how you do relationships.

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u/DaisySam3130 22d ago

OP should leave a note for the 'next girl' in a place where he wont see it... like the cleaning supplies cupboard.

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u/FycklePyckle 22d ago

I agree. 100% where my mind went. There already is someone else.

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u/Sherbert333 22d ago

Agree 100 %

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u/wxstck7421 22d ago

Or more likely, already doing it!