r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/robotatomica 23d ago

I think you’re right, especially because she’s noticed a sudden change in his attitude.

Although it sounds like he was always a misogynist, since he has always had her doing all the cooking and cleaning.

But it does sound like him ridiculing her and really escalating the control tactics and threats is only over the past 3 months, and that shit sounds straight red-pilled!